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35 San Ramon, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English, German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do. name is Derek. Im a professional and a single dad living the dream in San Ramon. I'm hoping to meet a woman in a similar situation as me. Maybe you're a single parent? Recently divorced? You've got a busy schedule or career? I have a lot to offer the right woman, just dont have a lot of time. I'm typically available Mon and Tues nights and alternating weekends...I know, I know! Lol, well if you're ok with the schedule...shoot me a message!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being the best dad I can be for my daughter post divorce is #1 for me. I share custody 50/50 with her mother. The ex and I managed to remain friends through our divorce which Im grateful for. I absolutely cant stand drama!

I'm in tech sales and my office is located in San Jose. I have a very flexible schedule during the day. I basically get paid to socialize with a lot of fun people at lunches, mixers and networking events...not a bad gig!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing at myself and being silly, making others laugh, cooking (especially working the grille), doing foreign accents, over rotating front flips, giving incredible massages, solving complex problems, making breakfast, weeding through the BS to get to the truth, procrastination, I have a real talent for locking my keys in my State Farm Rep loves me! ;) Most importantly, being a dad.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a looong commute so I've been doing audio books to help pass the time. Listening to Game of Thrones right now...have Echart Tolle on queue. I like to read things that chalenge my beliefs and I'm a sucker for the post apocalyptic genre which means i love me some zombies! I enjoy most music...especially if its live. Here's a list of some of my favorites:

The Stand
The Road
Anne Rice's Vampire Chronicles
Swan Song
Many Lives Many Masters (must read)
A New Earth
The Power of Now

The Alien trilogy...the rest sucked
Last of the Mohikans
13th Warrior
Office Space
Big Lebowski
Usual Suspects
28 days later
So so many more....

Game of Thrones
Big Bang Theory
How I Met Your Mother
Family Guy
Bar Rescue
News Room
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: My Daughter
2: Family / Friends
3: My Bed
4: Good Food (examples: a big juicy rib eye, linguini and clams and some fresh baked bread, pho, sushi, all kinds of cheese (except cottage...blah!) anything on the bbq, bacon & fried egg sandwiches on sourdough when Im hungover!...ya, I love food.
5: Google Maps
6: Hot Showers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the future has in store for me, my daughter, the country and our planet.

Ways of finding balance in my life.

How I would survive the zombie apocalypse. Dont worry, I'll include you in my colony of misfit survivors...but only if I like you! ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home or going out with friends. Depends on if i have my kiddo.
You should message me if
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You think we might enjoy each others company. You have a sense of humor and like to be silly. You're not trying to get married and have kids asap. You're comfortable in your own skin and communicate well both in and out of the bedroom. Your adventurous and like to try new things and explore new places.

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