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defectedmind

26 / F / Gay / Single

New Haven, Connecticut

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:37pm
Ethnicity
White, Other, Undeclared
Height
5′ 6″ (1.67m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Military
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
By heart I'm a traveler, a peruser of books, and occasionally where you are... Currently in this city smaller than some, larger than others, with a wealth of knowledge, as is oft in areas of great populous, as knowledge flows, or possibly brews, as it perpetually stews, sitting in wait to be heard or read, or found perhaps in its stead.
History has always been a great interest of mine, in almost any fashion or form. The different events, have shaped modern life, if not more so the perspectives pushed from various eras.
For now I wander ever on in this venue called life, determined to reach the certain goals, and all the same completely unconcerned as to how they are achieved.
Volunteer work of some sort of another is a passion of mine, doing things for others just makes every day all the better.
Also I enjoy skewing the gender lines, and as that photo goes to show you, drag is fairly awesome.

Did I mention that I am a ninja?

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What I’m doing with my life
*whistles quietly*
Juggling small children o.o
and balancing them, too.

There are always those bicycling adventures that go on for a vast number of miles. *Cries* Alas, they stole my bicycle... Yet I drove on with the mission and here is a new one!

History is a present pleasure, the knowledge of things once past is ever fascinating.

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I’m really good at
*whistles quietly*
Juggling small children o.o
and balancing them, too.

There are always those bicycling adventures that go on for a vast number of miles. *Cries* Alas, they stole my bicycle... Yet I drove on with the mission and here is a new one!

History is a present pleasure, the knowledge of things once past is ever fascinating.

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The first things people usually notice about me
That I am not reclusive.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-A Tale of Two Cities, selections from Edgar Allen Poe, A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court, Lord of the Rings, 1984, Lord of the Flies, Full Metal Alchemist Manga, Ender's Shadow, the Harry Potter series, Books on Gender

-My Fair Lady, horror movies, The Sound of Music, V for Vendetta, The Jacket, Domino, 28 Days Later, The Holy Grail, The Life of Brian, Wristcutters, Harold and Maude, Imagine Me and You, Fear and Loathing in Los Vegas, Run Lola Run

Green Day, Tegan and Sara, The Vincent Black Shadow, Kimya Dawson, My Chemical Romance, Billy Joel, Blue October, Regina Spektor, M.I.A., Rachael Cantu, Smashing Pumpkins, The Cranberries, The White Stripes, Florence and the Machine, Dead Sara

-sushi, licorice ice cream, avocados, MILK

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The six things I could never do without
*sadly shakes head and walks away*

- Good friends
- good books
- my bicycle
- Those children that I daily juggle
-Why six?

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
How where I am is not what I had envisioned to reach at twenty five, and how it doesn't really matter. If I rush through life, life itself will pass me by.

Gender, is irrelevant.
As such, why is it that removing your shirt outdoors in public is a crime for women, and not men? Are we that primitive? Does this piss anyone else off?

All of what is pondered has been said and written before, yet we like to think we are each "original".

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On a typical Friday night I am
Somewhere, over the rainbow way up high. In a land that I heard of once in a lullaby...

Sleeping perhaps? Similar things that other organic beings participate in, or just enjoying whatever surrounding I happen to be in.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that one of my eyes is two separate colors, also my body is encompassed by freckles.

Or how about that drag is a whole lot of fun...

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 20-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You can think of something to say. Have questions, or you actually want to go outside and participate in some kind of thrilling activity.
If you would like to cause some pro-active trouble, let me know. If you're looking for fun, with a touch of trouble, here it is. Also, if you trudged through the slew of letters and have reached the end of the page.

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