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39 M Waltham, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
University
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I don't go kayaking.

Just wanted to get that out of the way because - judging by the pictures - that seems to be the primary form of transportation for many here.

I'm kind of a geek. I'm interested in science. I tinker with electronics and program computers and play video games. I'd like to think I don't fit the stereotype of the awkward weirdo, though; I get along well with a lot of different kinds of people. I also play in a couple of bands and am into many genres of music.

I spend a good amount of time by myself, which is important to me, but I'd like to meet someone who would drag me out of the house occasionally to do something fun. I'm interested in seeking out new experiences and trying new things, so I'm up for almost anything at least once.
What I’m doing with my life
I write software that goes into musical instruments (keyboards specifically). It's a fun job that I enjoy a great deal. When I'm not working, I'm frequently getting involved in new avocations that don't go anywhere; the latest is woodworking.
I’m really good at
I think it's been shown that people are terrible at accurately assessing what they're good at. I believe I'm really good at a few things, but you'd have to judge that for yourself.

A more interesting topic would be "I'm really bad at." I could write a book about that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: The Matrix, True Romance, American Beauty, The Big Lebowski, A Fish Called Wanda, Office Space, Pulp Fiction, Aliens.

TV: Firefly, Simpsons (until it got lame), Newsradio, Breaking Bad, Homeland, Game of Thrones, Star Trek TNG.

Music: Jimi Hendrix, Sly and the Family Stone, Miles Davis, Thelonious Monk, Aretha Franklin, Cake, Curtis Mayfield, James Brown, Stravinski, Debussy, J.S. Bach, Zeppelin, Beatles, Paul Simon, Rage Against the Machine, NIN, The Police, Prince.

Books: A lot of nonfiction on random subjects. Science fiction. My favorite author is Neal Stephenson.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything.

I look at things from many angles and can sometimes overthink stuff. Someone suggested that I put that in my profile, like that would be an important aspect of compatibility/incompatibility.
On a typical Friday night I am
I might be out doing something, dinner with friends, going to see some live music or playing with my own band. Usually home though.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're smart and inquisitive, passionate about something (anything!), not crazy.