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definedFitRon

46 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hi!ok first I would like to say my pics taken 2014 so you can see how I look today not 10 yrs ago..lol..just being honest ..now I would like to say CHOOSE WELL, IF you understand the difference between US & I we have something in common lol ..I hope to find someone special who's caring..Passionate affectionate hope that's not asking to much:}someone who knows what they want.and not afraid to show it, someone who want the same things in life.. I am a single man..divorced for some yrs now.. my kids are grown so no!baby mama drama please!! I am very family oriented and love kids,children are welcome.. ultimately I would like to have someone,the right someone to share my life with.. The choices we make by accident are just as important as the choices we choose to make everyone has their own destiny .. choose to succeed always do better than those who never choose at all.I am confident with who I am..I love traveling i've traveled to 9 countries but would love to travel with my mate to be...I am truly a man of my word..I am very sincere..I have a passion for life I work out 6 days a week..I am slender athletic toned built...so if you are still reading PLEASE!!!! NO! games move on! I have morals & I do believe in Chivalry men should have a duty to provide for and protect a lady...i'm single by choice..I believe God will answer my prayers I know someone will read my profile that's compatible with myself..who's ready for commitment don't be shy i'm waiting for my Queen...... I ALMOST FORGOT YOU WOULD LOVE MY SPECIAL TURKEY MEAT LOAF YES I CAN COOK...SMILES
What I’m doing with my life
I have often asked that question of "What do I want to be when I grow up?" and I believe every year God reveals more about the potential within. Amazingly, I AM SELF EMPLOYED Land lord PLUS INVESTMENT I LOVE BEING MY OWN BOSS I TRAVEL WHEN I LIKE...
I’m really good at
HELPING PEOPLE TO LOSE WEIGHT FITNESS PART OF MY LIFE I ENJOY PING PONG KICK BOXING
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and the way I treat others plus they say i'm always in tip top shape I only have one body..lol...can't trade it in like a car after 100,000miles lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Note book Dear JOHN FIRE PROOF.. IN LOVE AND WAR .THE FAMILY MAN TITANIC NIGHTS IN RODANTHE Meet Joe Black..Some where in time.. i have so many wow!!!!
The six things I could never do without
Car cell home gym blender Healthy foods my projector
I spend a lot of time thinking about
MY FUTURE INVESTING MY MONEY FOR RETIREMENT I'M GREAT WITH SAVING MONEY
On a typical Friday night I am
USUALLY AT HOME NOT INTO CLUBS BEEN THERE DONE THAT ... I DO GO TO MOVIES A LONE MAYBE THIS SITE WILL HELP ME MEET THAT SPECIAL LADY WHO'S READY FOR COMMITMENT
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
when I watch Romantic movies I get choke up I love when the man get's the lady Happy ending :}
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
IF YOU ARE SEEKING A MAN WITH CLASS WHO BELIEVE IN PARTNERSHIP NOT I BUT US ..SOMEONE WHO'S WILLING TO CONTINUE TO GROW TOGETHER..NEVER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE,IF THEY WANT YOU TO CHANGE I FEEL THEY ARE NOT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU PERIOD!IF YOU ONLY WANT TO TX MGS I'M NOT THE PERSON FOR YOU..PICK UP THE PHONE SO WE CAN TALK..WE CAN'T LEARN NOTHING OVER TX MGS..IT'S OK SOME TIME BUT I WANT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE..THAT'S A TURN OFF AFTER AWHILE...SORRY JUST BEING HONEST..IF IT'S IMPORTANT FOR UR MAN TO DRIVE A NEW CAR I'M NOT FOR YOU..I RATHER MY LADY DRIVE A NICE CAR..I DRIVE A OLD JEEP WRANGLER IT'S PAID FOR I LOVE IT & THE SUMMER TIME..IF I WANT A NEW CAR I CAN PAY CASH..CARS DON'T IMPRESS ME ANYMORE..LIKE IT DID WHEN I WAS YOUNG..I'M NOT SELFISH SO YOU SHOULD DRIVE THE NICE CAR..THAT'S MY JOB TO SHOW I APPRECIATE YOU..IF YOU ARE HAPPY I'M HAPPY..IT'S CALL TEAM WORK IT'S NOT ABOUT ME IT'S ABOUT US.
I HAVE 7 RULES OF LIFE
1. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present never talk about ur last relationship saying how good it was..if that's the case you should still be with Him..move on.
2. What others think of you is none of your business.
3. Time heals almost everything, give it time.
4. Don't compare your life to others and don't judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
5. Stop thinking too much, it's alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it
don't assume you know the answer ask if you don't understand .
6. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.
7. if you show me ur friends I will show you your future .THAT'S MY STORY..