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defyentropy

25 Glastonbury, CT Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 30
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm compassionate, creative, and a little bit crazy. I lose my mind if I don't have some sort of creative outlet (it can be as simple as coloring). I derive my joy from bringing happiness to others. I knit, I read, I goof around on the guitar, I've recently started meditating but don't practice enough. I try to enjoy myself, even when life makes it hard to.
Right now I'm focusing on myself, doing what I want to do. Kayaking, hiking, reading, sleeping, dancing, getting back in shape, learning to ride a bike, making guacamole, cooking, watching movies, and having intelligent conversations and banter. Oh, how I miss witty banter. I want to try new things, so if you've got suggestions, I'm open to them.
Oh, and I love to travel. Addicted.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm substitute teaching, for now. I love working with children, but didn't find that out until I finished a bachelor's degree in English and Women's Studies a few years ago. For now I babysit, enjoy my life as much as I can, and apply for daycare jobs. I plan to go back to school to get my Preschool certification so I can become a preschool teacher. I'd always thought I'd teach high school English but quite honestly, I don't think I have the self esteem for it. Children are honest, and open, and haven't been jaded by the world yet. Every day I spend with them brings me more joy. Beyond that, I want to travel as much as possible in what time I have. The world is huge, and I don't think I'll ever see enough of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people, and figuring out how they think. I'm a very good friend, extremely loyal. Smart. A pretty decent writer. I feel things very strongly and occasionally manage to express those feelings. I'm incredibly passionate about many things. Ask me about them and I'll tell you.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, and my hair. I'm very short, and have unreasonably curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Jeannette Winterson. If you like her, we'll have lots to talk about. I'm a huge fantasy and sci-fi nerd from back in the day, Tolkien and Douglas Adams and the like. John Fante, Ken Bruen, both beautiful lyrical writers. Different genres appeal to me as long as its excellent writing. Also many, many others. Suggest a book that blows me away and I'm yours.

Movies: Love many; London Boulevard, Particles of Truth, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Walk on Water, Star Wars... impossible to name them all.

Shows: Doctor Who, 30 Rock, Supernatural, Suits, Queer As Folk, The Office, and Avatar:The Last Airbender. Don't knock that shit until you've tried it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectual stimulation.
Intimate friendships.
Water.
Rain.
Summer.
Chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Literally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with my best friend or staying in with my fish, netflix, and my books. Or babysitting, more often then not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I knit.
You should message me if
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You don't mind a total nerd.
If you like to try new things, think deep thoughts, and share them with others. You need to be open minded in terms of sexuality, identity, and feminism, as these things are dear to my heart and the ones I love. I have a deep well of compassion, understanding, and patience, and hope for someone who shares some of that. If you find me interesting, there's no harm in giving things a try :)
I don't judge people based on what they do or know how to do, but on what they're willing to try and to learn. I hope you'll do the same for me.