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defysys
20 / F / straight / Single
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Awards (16)
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Height
- 5' 3" (1.62m).
- Body Type
- Curvy
- Looking For
- —
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Desperately
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Agnosticism and very serious about it
- Sign
- Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Dropped out of space camp
- Job
- Student
- Income
- Less than $20,000
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am oblique, literary, and amorphous.
My Self-Summary
Philosophical train wreck. Devil's advocate. Lark.
I am quite interested in the serendipitous philosophical and oddball musings that can arise from a lack of sleep. I'm a concept person. I'm also likely the only person on here who contends that she could be neatly summarised in a couple of little boxes. Or just one.
Don't believe me?
The following for the benefit of those spectrally oriented and prosaically challenged:
chaotic-X-----------------organised
dull---X---------------------sparkly
levelheaded-------------X---moronic
acerbic----X-only when I want to be
lost----X-----------------------lost
★YOU ARE HERE
See?
Non sono contenta, ma so ridere anche quando è difficile.
Non sono una persona davvero seria.
I am quite interested in the serendipitous philosophical and oddball musings that can arise from a lack of sleep. I'm a concept person. I'm also likely the only person on here who contends that she could be neatly summarised in a couple of little boxes. Or just one.
Don't believe me?
The following for the benefit of those spectrally oriented and prosaically challenged:
chaotic-X-----------------organised
dull---X---------------------sparkly
levelheaded-------------X---moronic
acerbic----X-only when I want to be
lost----X-----------------------lost
★YOU ARE HERE
See?
Now in Italian
Non sono vera, sono ben trovata.Non sono contenta, ma so ridere anche quando è difficile.
Non sono una persona davvero seria.
What I’m doing with my life
Squandering it.
Destroying delicately construed images of self that may or may not have been intentionally presented to others. I have a reputation to uphold, as they say.
Most days I smell like chemicals, and can be found sitting in class half awake and doodling in my notebook. One time a friend peeked at it and then looked at me and said, “Now we know what’s going on in your violent mind, Milly.” I was a voodoo child.
Destroying delicately construed images of self that may or may not have been intentionally presented to others. I have a reputation to uphold, as they say.
Most days I smell like chemicals, and can be found sitting in class half awake and doodling in my notebook. One time a friend peeked at it and then looked at me and said, “Now we know what’s going on in your violent mind, Milly.” I was a voodoo child.
Editors
Now in Italian
Vivi senza regole.
I’m really good at
Half joking. Obstinately refusing to oblige. Lol’ing (emphasis on
the second “l”), but talking really quietly.
Exhibiting unexpected facets of my personality at random but decisive moments.
Not at writing profiles, as you can tell.
Exhibiting unexpected facets of my personality at random but decisive moments.
Not at writing profiles, as you can tell.
Now in Chinese
六指琴魔
The first things people usually notice about me
Here's hoping they don't. My self-consciousness wouldn't like that
very much.
Also I loathe to admit this but people tell me that I am nicer than I'd lead them to believe.
Corker.
Also I loathe to admit this but people tell me that I am nicer than I'd lead them to believe.
Corker.
Editors
Now in Chinese
这小兔崽子
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books*:
- John Larkin, Nostradamus & Instant Noodles ("What's happening in Home and Away and Neighbours?")
:seriously, the single funniest book ever ever ever:
- Françoise Sagan, Bonjour Tristesse
- Somerset Maugham, The Razor’s Edge
- Evelyn Waugh, Brideshead Revisited
- Peter Hoeg, Smilla’s Sense of Snow
- Melina Marchetta, Saving Francesca
- Jostein Gaarder, Sophie’s World
- Nick Earle, 48 Shades of Brown
- Zadie Smith, The Autograph Man (not her best but definitely her most poignant)
- Nick Hornby
- P.G. Wodehouse
Currently reading: Paulo Coelho’s The Alchemist.
*I need recommendations. Non retarded ones preferred but retarded ones may suffice.
Movies:
- (No, I couldn't find a subtitled one, sorry.)
Music:
Spiritualised, Blur, Fennesz, The Automatic Automatic, Ólafur Arnalds, Nouvelle Vague, Devics, Elva萧亚轩, Amy Winehouse, New Order/Joy Division, The Who, Procol Harum, Stina Nordenstam, F.I.R.飞儿乐团, 爱戴, Strange House-era Horrors, The Arctic Monkeys, Last Shadow Puppets, Rogue Traders, Gemma Hayes, Paola e Chiara, Elisa Toffoli, Arab Strap, Halou, Brad Mehldau, Bark Psychosis
- John Larkin, Nostradamus & Instant Noodles ("What's happening in Home and Away and Neighbours?")
:seriously, the single funniest book ever ever ever:
- Françoise Sagan, Bonjour Tristesse
- Somerset Maugham, The Razor’s Edge
- Evelyn Waugh, Brideshead Revisited
- Peter Hoeg, Smilla’s Sense of Snow
- Melina Marchetta, Saving Francesca
- Jostein Gaarder, Sophie’s World
- Nick Earle, 48 Shades of Brown
- Zadie Smith, The Autograph Man (not her best but definitely her most poignant)
- Nick Hornby
- P.G. Wodehouse
Currently reading: Paulo Coelho’s The Alchemist.
*I need recommendations. Non retarded ones preferred but retarded ones may suffice.
Movies:
- (No, I couldn't find a subtitled one, sorry.)
Music:
Spiritualised, Blur, Fennesz, The Automatic Automatic, Ólafur Arnalds, Nouvelle Vague, Devics, Elva萧亚轩, Amy Winehouse, New Order/Joy Division, The Who, Procol Harum, Stina Nordenstam, F.I.R.飞儿乐团, 爱戴, Strange House-era Horrors, The Arctic Monkeys, Last Shadow Puppets, Rogue Traders, Gemma Hayes, Paola e Chiara, Elisa Toffoli, Arab Strap, Halou, Brad Mehldau, Bark Psychosis
The six things I could never do without
toy monkey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I was at the art gallery a while ago, some exhibition pertaining to
modern art - dada and surrealism, conceptual stuff, when I came
across a poster with the following quote on it. I later discovered
that it was the credo of a guerrilla movement aimed at providing
accessibility to the works of local artists, and taking them
outside of the conventional studio settings:
"With wavering clarity we understand that what we do is confined to the limitations of representation and we're okay with that. As a product and service Instant Coffee is an effective substitute: It mimics the real thing without the pretense of being better. It isn't that much easier to make, which is reason enough to justify it. Taste is a factor, taste being an important way to designate quality and define preference. But quality is too particular and preferences change. They are superfluous really, misnomers that distract from the basic reasons for ingesting either the real thing or its substitute. Value is in their effect. In its taste, Instant Coffee barely resembles the real thing, but its effect is the same. Regardless of taste, it still works. Quality is beside the point. In this disregard Instant Coffee becomes a medium to be used. This is Instant Coffee."
Is that unabashed mediocrity? And if so, isn't it rather intriguing?
And what to do when the conversation starts to lose momentum.
"With wavering clarity we understand that what we do is confined to the limitations of representation and we're okay with that. As a product and service Instant Coffee is an effective substitute: It mimics the real thing without the pretense of being better. It isn't that much easier to make, which is reason enough to justify it. Taste is a factor, taste being an important way to designate quality and define preference. But quality is too particular and preferences change. They are superfluous really, misnomers that distract from the basic reasons for ingesting either the real thing or its substitute. Value is in their effect. In its taste, Instant Coffee barely resembles the real thing, but its effect is the same. Regardless of taste, it still works. Quality is beside the point. In this disregard Instant Coffee becomes a medium to be used. This is Instant Coffee."
Is that unabashed mediocrity? And if so, isn't it rather intriguing?
And what to do when the conversation starts to lose momentum.
On a typical Friday night I am
Riding my nine million bicycles to Beijing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
toy monkey
Private admittances are useless. When caught in an awkward situation, I employ a common trick known as lying through my teeth. I'm pretty ridiculous. I'm also pretty off putting. Especially politically, which I refrain from touching upon. I think that last sentence didn't really make grammatical sense. I also think you can tell that I'm avoiding the question by way of incoherent rambling.
Private admittances are useless. When caught in an awkward situation, I employ a common trick known as lying through my teeth. I'm pretty ridiculous. I'm also pretty off putting. Especially politically, which I refrain from touching upon. I think that last sentence didn't really make grammatical sense. I also think you can tell that I'm avoiding the question by way of incoherent rambling.
You should message me if
You want to get to know me. My profile probably did a shit job of
convincing you, but dammit, I deserve a fair chance. I'm a special
likkle snowflake. I tug on your heartstrings until you need
coronary artery bypass.
You think I should add your name to my list of loonies I have lunched with. (You get the allusion.)
You're not 85.
You think I should add your name to my list of loonies I have lunched with. (You get the allusion.)
You're not 85.
