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dejafrigginvue

48 M Studio City, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Have you ever seen the movie "Groundhog Day"? That's how I feel right now as I'm updating my profile. It seems that I've been in this exact spot just yesterday. *#@&*%!)#* Argh!!!

Am I really still single? Really?? (Click, Kaboom, Thud)

I was about to redo my whole profile. You know, streamline it a but. But then after reading it (again) I've decided F**K it...I like it. It's real. It's me! And I refuse to look at other men's profiles to compare, so this is what you get.

A while ago, I received an e-mail from a gal that said she had seen me on dating sites for years, and she asked me how come I haven't found the ONE yet. She suggested that maybe I wasn't being honest in my desire to be with ONE woman. She wasn't being rude (it was actually complimentary) but come on...she's been on these sites for years too...as many of us have. Anyway, she assumed I was on here looking to date many women. Ha...Hilarious!! So I wonder...Do most women think that if a man has been on a few dating sites for extended periods of time that they aren't serious? Hmm.

Facts: I'm 5'10 and 3/4, 172 pounds, great sense of humor. In my humble opinion: fit, funny, intelligent, cool, silly, sensual, compassionate, intriguing, clean, sensitive, giving, and as genuine a person as you will find. Oh, and since I have more characters to use...I'm an ex New Yorker! Oh yeah...one more thing...I'm a young 50...(how the F did that happen?)...shhh...don't tell anyone, it'll be our little secret.

It's always feels a bit strange to tell the world what a great guy I am. Really...aren't we all decent people on here? But...I'm a great guy! Ha ha. Okay, will you settle for nice? :-D

My goal: To find a partner to write the next 50 chapters of our lives. I am so over being single and would love to never again be on a dating site.
What I’m doing with my life
It seems like a lot of the profiles use this space to tell about how they spend their free time helping the less fortunate or that they just got back from their fourth trip to some third world country where they helped build a new school. Hey, that's all good, it is. But I'm doing what most of us are doing...working during the week and relaxing on the weekends. And trying to find the one that I will call MY GIRL. That's it...simple!!
I’m really good at
Hmm, let's see...in no particular order...kissing, doodling, and math. Yeah, that's all I got. Well wait..actually I'm pretty good at writing songs and then forgetting the tune entirely which then leaves me with poems. So yeah, I am a poet. Here is my latest. Wrote it very late one night. It took me about 10 minutes. Yep...what can I say...I'm a friggin' genius. :-D

This is a poem I wrote last night
A wee bit short yet full of might
With shoulders back I stood upright
And faced the demon in plain sight

Never more will I be deceived
By senseless insecurities
For I am strong; I will achieve
With love in heart I must believe

My confidence like a beacon's light
Shall guide my way with pure delight
This is a poem I wrote last night
A wee bit short yet full of might
The first things people usually notice about me
My vivid, pulsating aura, of course. Then, um...I don't know...possibly a nice smile. :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books? Yeah, no I'm not really into this reading thing. Though I do enjoy rock autobiographies; just read Who I Am by Pete Townshend. Really good. Also I recommend Ozzy Osbourne's, and Don Felder's autobiography. Both were GREAT!! Next up...Keith Richards. I heard it's also a great read.

Movies - Saw a lot of good ones this year. Too many to list. But recently enjoyed Django Unchained, and an indy flick...Seven Psychopaths. AWESOME! Come on..Christopher Walken, Woody Harrelson, Sam Rockwell. Ha Ha. Go find this movie. There are so many "faves", but I'll limit it to a few movies that I can see once a year (or more) and still love them like the first time. In random order...

West Side Story, Cool Hand Luke, Raging Bull, Close Encounters, Jaws, Best in Show (anything by Christopher Guest), Planes, Trains and Automobiles (might be my favorite comedy), Sound of Music, Gene Kelly musicals, Godfather 1 and 2, anything by Laurel and Hardy and The Marx Brothers, Raising Arizona, GENE WILDER anything!, French movies (Go rent Tell No One...amazing!)...and about 100 more. Love movies!!

Music - man, I love so many different syles. My favorite type would be singer/songwriters...like James Taylor (maybe my favorite), Billy Joel, Jackson Browne, Paul Simon, Francis Dunnery, Neil Young, etc. But I love classic rock, Motown, Bocelli and Sinatra. Really the only stuff I despise are hair metal bands (pathetic), gangsta rap, techno shit, and anything from or sounding like Britney Spears.

Favorite Food - Me like the Sushi, Chocolate anything, and a real New York pizza.
The six things I could never do without
1. Laughing
2. Toilet paper
3. Chocolate
4. My cell phone
5. My laptop
6. Love :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...how I really would love to find MY GIRL. Will I find her soon. And when I do, what new life experiences will we create. Also, why am not at a cool dinner party somewhere. I mean, it seems everyone on here goes to dinner parties. Why am I not there! I wanna go!
On a typical Friday night I am
Well as I'm single, if I'm not on a date, then Friday I'm usually home chilling. Saturday, I'll grab a bite and a movie or I'll pop into a friendly poker game in town, or occasionally I'll see a blues band and have a few cold beers. And often, I just walk the boulevard (cue Harry Nilssons, Everybody's Talkin') Awesome huh? :-D
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wow...Okay...here, I got one...I can easily cry when I see something that moves me. You got a problem with that?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Well I guess the first reason you should message me is to reply to MY MESSAGE TO YOU! Yeah, I know you get a bazillion responses and blah, blah, blah. But I mean, really...I send out so very few "Hello's". (frustrated sigh)

If the idea/picture of shopping together at Trader Joe's...without your make-up on, maybe you're hair is in a ponytail, we are in our sweats and t-shirts...well if that makes you smile, then you get me :-).

You are a bunch of the following: cool, happy, cute, (fairly) intelligent, open minded, sensual, silly, and GENUINE!! Really, if you are looking for someone who is all of the above with a healthy dose of New York FUNNY, and if you're open to laughing with a great guy, then come say hello :-).

Okay, against the advice of my good friend, I choose to fully disclose the following...So to further scare you away (I hope not), my 21 year old daughter moved in with me a few months back, as she is just starting out in the real world. Yeah, I know...but it is what it is. Room service?