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dejna

24 / F / straight / Single

Zagreb, Croatia

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.73m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on med school
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay), Italian (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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I am unpredictable, everything, and nothing.

My Self-Summary

Philosopher, intelligent (so I think), observer... It's very complicated to say something about yourself in just few words. And when I start to write, words just fade away, don't know why... When I say philosopher, that means that I'm everlasting truth seeker. Although one can never find all the answers, you can always ask questions, which is more important. Always remind yourself that you exist, and always question the Universe why you exist... Like Goethe would said: "He who cannot draw on 3.000 years of learning lives hand to mouth."

What I’m doing with my life

Trying to be a successful student on medical-school, reading a lot, watching movies and anime. Writing, trying to understand how mankind can be so blind... Traveling ...

Well... This was about a year ago. Now, stuck in the endless agony of med school life. I dumped "the TV" out, and started a new, hopefully, long-lasting relationship with my med school books. And they are loooong, believe me. And thus began my social DEvolution, very little friends, 'cause, of course, socializing requires time, and I don't have any left in spare. Don't get any wrong ideas, I don't have a self pitying phenomenon, but really, believe me, it's not easy at all. Just to finish this by quoting my mom's wisdom: "This is what you chose for yourself, and nobody's forcing you to do this except yourself"... What else to say...

I’m really good at

Hmm, I don't think I'm that good at anything in particular.
Oh, yeah, I'm really good at being sarcastic if this is something someone could be good at. Oh, man I'm like a snake, bitting, killing. :)
I'm not good at socializing with people, it's like I have a big cramp in my stomach when talking to a stranger.
Oh, I know! I'm really good at making plans in my life, from A to D. And yes, reading people, from distance, always observing.. Observing social structure and interactions is the most interesting hobby one could have.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, they're so black. My face, someone told me I have a sad expression. So they say...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A) LOTR (that goes for movie and books), Pirsig, Gaarder, Houellebecq, Akutagawa, Hesse, Bulgakov, Remarque, B.Russell

(B) Kurosawa's The Seven Samurai, Rashomon (both the movie and the story); Fear And Loathing In Las Vegas; Wings Of Desire; Natural Born Killers; Lepa Sela Lepo Gore (Serbian movies - great sense of humour); Shawshank Redemption; Fight Club; Clockwork Orange, Blow, Rules Of Attraction, Dreamers, Last Tango In Paris (all Bertolucci's movies), Woody Allen, Kusturica's movies, Lars Von Trier (Idiots, Breaking The Waves), Luis Bunuel's movies (Le Charme discret de la bourgeoisie, Belle de jour, Simón del desierto, Âge d'or,Un chien andalou), Pedro Almodovar's movies, Bergman's Seventh Seal, Breathless (Godard), Jarmusch's Coffee And Cigarettes...

(C) Rock and ambiental/etno music, Brazilian Jazz, Fado, Classical music (especially Claude Debussy and Chopin, etc.)

(D) When you're a student and don't know how to cook, you don't get to be picky...

The six things I could never do without

Recently, one event totally changed my perception about the world. Things are dispensable and overrated. With absolute certainty I claim I can manage without every ridiculous thing I possess in my life, because when you're dead and buried or burned, and when your room mates are worms or insects, and your "apartment" is a small coffin, it doesn't really matter what you've possessed during your years you've spent on this planet. Precious and beautiful memories and people you can count on in every good or bad situation is the only "thing" worth living for. Everything else is just a shadow of perfection.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything!

On a typical Friday night I am

Typical Friday? Something like that exists?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My father died this year, and it seems that Universe wanted to make fun of me, and of all the days in the year, he had to die on my birthday. It's a really sad reminder.

And yes... I like Star Trek :)

You should message me if

I'm not sure I would be a good company if you chose to message me. Or if I'm even going to message you back. But, I read every message in my inbox, and think it would be nice to chat with someone, but most of the time I'm pretty exhausted and just forget about this site and everything else.