Hmm. I optimistically updated this a while ago, then got consumed by grad school and have been ignoring it ever since. Apologies if you've sent a message only to receive radio silence - I will update my profile again when I have time to play, but for now, you can put me in the "potential random IM conversation, but nothing more" category, k?

I'm a geeky, quirky, poly, pansexual, kinky genderqueer femme who spends too much time on the internet. I'm happily partnered and live with my primary, but am hoping to find partners in crime for occasional movie-watching, kink (I'm a switch), and long rambly conversations about gender, sexuality, angst, and bacon sandwiches.

I'm a curvy girl, not plus-size but not slim either, so if you're looking for someone on the skinny side, please move along. This does mean I can seriously rock a corset (including my favourite Hello Kitty one).

I'm mostly silly, occasionally clever, and frequently random. I love good film, good literature and things that sparkle. I believe in making ordinary life an extraordinary experience.

Grad school. But I'm hoping to discover life outside my thesis and am open to new possibilities!

Thinking on my feet, living in the moment, and finding the perfect snappy come-back exactly 10 seconds too late.

It's a toss-up between the combo of shyness and sillyness, or the eclectically coloured hair - right now it's peacock.

Fav authors include Margaret Drabble, Peter Carey and Alice Munro. Fav directors include Kurosawa, GilliamWenders & Scorsese. Musically I'm a philistine trapped in the 90's, but I'm willing to learn. Food loves include Thai, Italian, Chinese, and a sneaking fondness for kosher hot dogs.

friends, coke zero, kitty-cats, internet, self-motivation, corsets

Recently it seems to be queer theory, gender politics and micro-pigs.

Studying. Seriously. Sad, isn't it? Or, possibly attending some sort of fetish night. Or, studying about fetish nights.

Sometimes I dress in drag, but I'm so bad at it that people usually just think I'm wearing an overly tailored suit and forgot makeup.

You're queer or queer-friendly, and are comfortable with nonbinary gender expression. You're not looking for a primary partner, or a random one-night hook-up, but are open to anything in between.

You're not afraid to be unconventional, and you're a firm believer in the sanctity of fun.