Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


36 Jamaica Plain, MA Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:15am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, French
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intensely contemplative, passionate about ideas and their instantiation, creative, working on being less destructive unless in reference to unthought social mores, deeply interested in new perspectives however rare they are, desiring resonance - I often feel like Whitman encompassing various bodies.

I currently manage a division at an efficiency/renewable energy company. Before that, I finished my Masters in Philosophy in Belgium. Before that I did environmental and human rights work and election work for progressives and Obama for about 10 years.

I paint. I write. I love bombast, wit, play, and people barreling down on life. I often find my head in the clouds (as my brain doesn't have an off-switch), until my senses compel me back to earth... which happens as a hedonist of sorts, open to and affirming of all the pleasures of life. I'm very much a beer aficionado (yeah craft beer!), homebrew (just finished a Pannepot clone), and love to cook (anything). I also edit reviews for a small videogaming website, am a practicing museum junkie, and I love riding my bike (to work, but really anywhere - preferably with some wind in my hair).

I like candor, thought, creativity, authenticity, care, passion, curiosity, singularity, intensity, taste, deformation, left wing politics, play, desire, open eyes, attention to what moves you, rigorous ideas, appreciating moments, inspiration, being overcome, the little things, overcoming, unfolding worlds...

I grew up religiously evangelical but jettisoned that long ago. My wife, MegsinMass, and I enjoy other partners, so I'm looking for extra fun and connection (more bonus points for non-monogamous / polyamorous gals).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Unfortunately not reading nearly enough Jacques Lacan - but making up for it with Neal Stephenson.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books (fiction):
Black Lamb Grey Falcon, Ishmael, Hyperion (Simmons), Infinite Jest, In Search of Lost Time, God Emperor of Dune, Moby Dick, The Rosy Crucifixion: Sexus/Plexus/Nexus, The Trial,

Books (non-fiction):
Difference and Repetition, The Symposium, Genealogy of Morals, Guns Germs and Steel, Writing and Difference, Capitalism & Schizophrenia: A Thousand Plateaus

Music: Philip Glass, Bob Dylan, Tool, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths, Built to Spill, R.E.M., Tori Amos, The Doors, Soundgarden

Games: Dark Souls, Morrowind, Super Metroid, Limbo, Mass Effect, Alpha Centauri, Dear Esther, Fallout 3, S:S&S EP, Dwarf Fortress

Movies: Alien, Valhalla Rising, Stalker (Tarkovsky), La Dolce Vita, Blue Velvet, Pi, The Dark Knight, Dr. Strangelove, every nature or history documentary ever
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Megan
2. Creating
3. The North Woods (and/or Lake Superior)
4. Ideas
5. Love & Sex
6. Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
don't get me started... "thought thinking itself" gets to be too much at times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging with wife/friends/dates
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
A: You like sci-fi (books especially)
B: You like thinking about the world (but aren't stuffy or close-minded) and ideas turn you on - you're turned on by living
C: think i'm hot
D: you enjoy your beer (and/or homebrew)
E: you would like to meet someone who's special, and are open to what comes of it
F: want company to a contemporary art museum/gallery
G: talk Deleuze to me!