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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
May 27, 2014
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an honest, compassionate, playful, adventurous man, who knows himself well, has experienced the world in many unusual ways, and is looking for a true romantic partner in life.

I'm simply not capable of going along with the crowd. I've tried really, but it seems to be metaphysically impossible for me. I steadfastly resist categories, so we're just going to have to deal with a little complexity and individuality, okay? Let's see...I'm an artist and a teacher, totally fascinated by the world around me. I tend to look beneath the surface of things and I'm always eager to experience the world in a deeper way. I speak my truth, and I appreciate others who do the same. Nourished by nature, I'm totally energized by plunging into it with my whole body. Whether it's scuba diving, trekking in the mountains, sailing, surfing, mountain biking, or anything else that gets me moving in the elements, I'm happy. It would be great to meet someone who shares this passion. I kind of like to rough it when I travel, but I have no problem appreciating comforts. I'm also a slightly nerdy, only mildly neurotic, creative intellectual with a keen wit, a dry sense of humor, an alarming diversity of interests and an appetite to do it all. Whatever you fancy, I'm probably in. I tend to make bold choices in life.

I'm looking for an unusual, talented, intelligent and creative woman who is playful and emotionally honest, someone who isn't afraid to color outside of the lines. I'm a fan of intellectual curiosity, an adventurous spirit and a nurturing soul.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring, learning and growing. I'm passionate about living a creative life and developing true personal freedom.

Lately I've been making my living in real estate, but I'm also a stage director, and movement/drama teacher.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my imagination, communicating, remaining poised, seeing things from multiple angles, snuggling
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My giant 6 foot furry tail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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bob marley, thai food, the talking heads, theatre de complicite, gravity's rainbow, an education, william shakespeare, italo calvino, the dancing wu-li masters, a path of heart, lord jim, fantastic mr. fox, the shins, the lord of the rings, coltrane...uggh...too many "favorites" to mention, or remember for that matter. So there. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, shelter, imagination, heart, the elements, horizons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to write in this box.

(ok, that's totally a lie. I don't think about what to write in this box at all, that's why I wrote 'what to write in this box.' in this box. I thought maybe that might be a clever little joke, but reading it back I just thought "huh, that's kind of lame really. I mean I think about lots and lots of things...ALL of the time..and all I could think to write in this box was 'what to write in this box.'"?!)

(You know, maybe I do spend a lot of time thinking about what to write in this box.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
generally unaware that it's friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really have a giant 6 foot furry tail.
You should message me if
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You're a woman who knows what she wants.