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36 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:11am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
NOTE: please do not message for casual hookups. Thank you.

About me-
I'm kindhearted, a little willful, vibrant, intuitive, intelligent, self aware, a bit spontaneous, creative, independent, questioning, curious, ethical, slightly anti-establishment, sometimes restless.

About you-
You are gentle, reflective, ethical, curious, intelligent

The rest, I suppose we'll have to find out :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My passion is museum educational programming, my bread and butter is web writing, in my spare time I do photo work. I love exploring anything art-related, and anything involving getting some sunshine outside.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
asking myself tough questions about life and honestly going for those answers. seeing how sunlight spills into my day. daydreaming about life. knowing how to randomly cheer up people who are dearest to me. abstract analysis of literature. making people feel genuinely welcome. spoiling those i love.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
the moment i think i've pulled off being 'cool' i'm guaranteed to trip on an invisible crack in the sidewalk and fall on my posterior. its quite elegant, actually. i think i've turned it into an art. :D

quick note- my MBTI is ENFP. I connect very well with other "N" types. Regardless, I'm a sucker for an intelligent man with a kind heart.

quick note 2- i actually do have a story behind my username. If you have a slightly poetic bone in your skeleton, you may be permitted to ask about it ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Passion, The World and Other Places, Art: Essays on Ecstasy and Effrontery- all Jeannette Winterson (please discover Jeanette. when you do, you'll know why.)
Midnight's Children- Salman Rushdie
The Prophet- Khalil Gibran
Collected Field Notes- Robert Kroetsch
In the Skin of a Lion, What was lost - Michael Ondaatje
Anything Pablo Neruda, and Shel Silverstein :) )
Stone Diaries- Carol Shields
The Empire Writes Back to the Centre- Ania Loomba

movies: What Dreams May Come, Vanilla Sky, The Taqwacores, Caramel, A Bronx Tale, Lives of the Saints, Hellboy, bon cop bad cop

music: ok. i admit. i ahhh... i like country music. It makes me think of home. I imagine my 'low-brow' selection in this category could be underwhelming - i do actually play fairly well and write my own pieces, i just-- i'd like to keep this all simple for now.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*my camera- and i'm crushing on a 50mm1.2... one day...
*my cookbooks
*morning sunlight
*the feeling of skootching up on the couch with my little nephews and falling asleep.
*friends who are determined to live their best human journey.
*the ability to forgive.
*those brief moments of human connection that touch your life - they are the bright shadows that give your eyes depth as you get older.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
honestly? the big questions about life. What does it mean, really, to be a good human? What really is integrity? How can i spend as much time as possible with the people i love ?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with girlfriends, sometimes on a photo shoot, hunting down art show openings, heading out to the Gatineau for a walk, or lately, a really hot bath and pho soup. but not a bath IN pho soup. ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am fairly decent at doing my own oil changes on my car lol :) ok, and i have a serious weakness for a teensy bit of chivalry.
You should message me if
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you are happy about life, hopeful about your future, and at peace with your present :)