61 Macon, GA
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My self-summary
Nice version:
I'm a long, lean, sweet nerd who is passionate about sustainable agriculture, good architecture and trying to leave the world a little bit better.

I prize authenticity and find self-deprecating, sarcastic humor hilarious.

Not nice version:
Too tall, too serious, too focused on what everything MEANS, too smart, too educated, too judgmental, too sensitive.

ALSO! Of course I tried to get good pictures on here; but if you think "Hi beautiful" is conversation, I think you're an idiot. If you are less than forty five, then I'm old enough to be your mama and I'm not gonna go there. And if you're married, then no, you canNOT explain, not to me, and I think you're an asshole.

But you know what I've discovered? The people that diatribe is aimed at won't even read it! Should I take it down? Can't decide. Why is this so hard?
What I’m doing with my life
Just lost my German Shepherd after ten years...couldn't face another dog quite yet and have adopted two cats. Oh My Goodness, what a difference! Eckhart Tolle says they're Zen Masters. And my Zen Masters have pooped in the guest room. Three times! I think maybe enlightenment is going to take a while.
I’m really good at
Understanding people. I'm a Myers-Briggs INFJ. People are all we care about. No useful skills whatsoever, no matter how often you explain or show me. Now if you're mine, and YOU need it, it might come back to me. Otherwise: no face, no care! So yes, the furnace filters, smoke alarm batteries, and oil in the car probably need changing...but could we talk about something more interesting?
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall? (It's true, I'm tall). Intense. Paying close attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I prefer live performances! Probably haven't seen your favorite movie and have limited interest in television, cards, video/board games. Want to hear a rant?

I have season tickets to the Symphony and a Broadway show series.

Food: strong flavors, ethnic restaurants, hot peppers. Grilled everything. Whatever we made together--I like to cook. When I drink, which is about once a week with a meal, it's dark beer or red wine. Although if you serve single malt Scotch, I could change my habits.

Favorite books: A Pattern Language, The Permaculture Manual, The Inward Garden, The Righteous Mind, Back to the Rough Ground, Old Path White Clouds, Four Arguments for Elimination of Television, On Combat.
The six things I could never do without
Music, books, trees, a garden, coffee, friends and family.
YOU to talk to and well, let's wait and see.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to put more flowers, when to get a haircut, what's for supper. And mightn't we all be a little more patient and civilized if we took up the custom of afternoon tea?
On a typical Friday night I am
At a show or concert if there is one; hanging out with a good book; crashing to bed early if it's been a hectic week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Now some people would say I already said too much.
You should message me if
You are tall, smart, kind and reflective. You laugh to keep from crying about the mess we've made of everything but you're still trying to make a difference. You could sorta roll with it and laugh about it if your lady got worked up and expressed a vehement position, perhaps made a fool of herself doing so. Not every day, you know. Not even every week! But every now and then...