Sweet nerd seeks male who is kind, frighteningly bright and educated as well as sane, heterosexual, and gainfully employed (or retired solvent). And SINGLE, for God's sake.

I prize authenticity and find self-deprecating, sarcastichumor hilarious.

We like thinking and talking, you and me.

At work I teach psychiatry to medical students and I really, REALLY like it.
I go to church-- value joining together to find meaning and comfort, making a disciplined attempt to (try to) use my life for service, overcome my narrowness, experience transcendence, be better. Also greatmusic.

Teaching, talking to patients, seeing it all another way.

Whipping up supper and a get-together for friends.

Tall? (It's true, I'm tall). Cheekbones, a friend says. Cheekbones!

Who knew?

Almost always enjoy biographies, autobiographies. Can't stand watching violence and don't own a TV but do get sucked in by it at hotels.

I have season tickets to the Symphony and a Broadway show series.

I'm very selective about movies: I'm a shrink and get paid to hear sad stories, don't seek them out in my free time.

Food: strong flavors, ethnic restaurants, hot peppers. Grilled everything. Whatever we made together--I like to cook. When I drink, which is about once a week with a meal, it's dark beer or red wine. Although if you serve single malt Scotch, I could change my habits.

Music, books, trees, a garden, coffee and NPR.

YOU to talk to and ah, well; let's wait and see.

the cello fingerboard--- damn thing seems devilishly complicated to me

At a show or concert if there is one; hanging out with the dog and a good book; crashing to bed early if it's been a hectic week.

Now some people would say I already said too much.

You have integrity, kindness, a good sense of humor and a reflective nature.