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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–54
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:14pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Spanish, Vietnamese
My self-summary
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Hi. Just so you know, despite being a pretty positive person, I don't expect to find anything special here. Rather than try to give a good sales pitch and tell you great things that you want to hear, I figured I should just post a fairly simple profile and see what happens. I have this idea that if the right woman stumbles upon it, she will somehow, after checking out all the questions and everything, clearly recognize a strong affinity of some sort and pretty much just know. So, if you are that one in a million match, and are compelled enough by what you see and read, and feel you can guestimate and maybe even have gotten that zappy feeling that I may be your kinda guy and can sense the feeling will probably be mutual, then by all means say hey.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm self employed and it's going pretty well. Previous to this, not too long ago, after years of education, lots of travel, having a shop and dabbling in activism, I accidentally fell into a secondary (7-12th grade) math teacher position not long after Katrina in New Orleans. I know, crazy. WTF?! That is what I still keep telling myself. And I hadn't done math for fricken ages. The bar is so low these days. Okay, not funny. But truthfully, that is exactly why and how I got roped into it. And surprise surprise- I truly loved it!!! I am not teaching at the moment, though I hope to get back into it again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Let's see, how modest can I be here? I am quite the handy guy. I have a lot of experience...nah, that boring. Let's try a different approach. How about stuff that I am not so good at? I have the worse sense of direction than almost anyone I have ever met. This is not always a bad thing. Not infrequently I find (or was that lose) myself in unplanned, interesting and not infrequently beneficial predicaments. Suffice to say, I have a lot of experience when it comes to getting lost. If you were ever lost, you would want me there to help out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Are you thinking bad jokes? Darn it!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jitterbug Perfume!!!; Middlesex!! Dune!; The many great novels by Alice Walker,Tony Morrison, Kurt Vonnegut; Movies such as Percilla-Queen of the Desert; Whale Rider; Walkabout; Little Miss Sunshine; Beasts of the Southern Wild!!!; Looking for Sugarman; And let's not forget about Three's Company-come on, you gotta love that show; Music wise-Soul, Dance, Reggae, Zydeco+Brass bands. I am seriously considering getting a Zydeco dance thing going at my house and seeing where it goes. Just the spelling of that word alone... Let me known if you are interested-and! can teach me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People, nature, music, learning, travel, attraction.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What lies around the next corner and how to enjoy and appreciate things,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out or looking for somewhere to hang out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I play a lot of darts when I could be doing something else.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are a healthy, confident, positive, active, motivated person with a fun loving, pleasant, caring, truly drama and stress intolerant spirit. That would be a nice start. I am not asking for perfection.
Am I?????