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dementedcactus

28 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am kind of hard to summarize but I can highlight some aspects of me. I am honest, kind, great with kids, and passionate about education. I am looking to meet new people and make new friends on this site. I have an uncontrollable ability to make friends because I'm generally a nice person (more accurately, I'm an amazing listener, which I hear is rare) and I wouldn't have it any other way. I am also continuing my education and career in social work and early childhood education. I did, and still do, believe in karma for some strange reason. I feel that being a good, caring, non-violent, benevolent person is the best way to live a life while we're on this planet - and that in one way or another I will be rewarded for being good to others. I have seven tattoos and I have already decided on my next three tattoos. You can always message me if you want to know more.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at a day treatment facility as a job developer for the developmentally delayed. I freaking LOVE my job and my clients. I am working towards completing my Master's in Social Work. When I'm not working I am mentoring high school and college students in SAT, ACT, NY State Regents and volunteering when I'm bored.
I’m really good at
Grinding on the dancefloor to 90's R&B. I am a very good cook, and a better baker. I'm very good with mathematics - taught statistics for a few years. I'm also great at making people laugh. I believe that keeping yourself positive is the way to go which is why I try to instill that in every person that I meet. I am really good at dancing like a fool, especially to an electro or hip-hop beat. I am also a great listener by training, so if you ever need an impartial ear I'm your guy. I am also training in Jujitsu Grappling and I'm getting better at it everyday. My best friend would say I should add that I'm insanely good at massage. And I can completely destroy you in almost any board game, chess, checkers, and connect four. Come at me bro.
The first things people usually notice about me
My stature. I tend to stand out in crowds because of my height and bulkiness. I like it though, and I think it is the only reason why I haven't been in a fight in my entire adult life. I guess people don't want to fight giant guys with glasses? Who knows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Animal Farm, Freakonomics, Blink, 1984, Ender's Game, The Bluest Eye, The Giver, a large Majority of Regents and SAT prep books, and To Kill a Mockingbird.

Movies: Short Bus, Bruno, Mongol, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Star Wars Episodes 1-6, Stranger than Fiction, The Dark Knight, The Dark Knight Rises, Hot Fuzz, Half-baked, Blow, Precious, Team America: World Police, Napoleon Dynamite, Lost in Translation, 300, Pan's Labyrinth, Night of the Living Dead, Gone with the Wind, Beetle Juice, Scarface, Kill Bill, Donnie Darko, Iron Man 1&2, Thor, Incredible Hulk, Avengers, Resident Evil franchise, Scott Pilgrim, Inception, Bourne Franchise, Lord of the Rings, Spirited Away, Brokeback Mountain, The Science of Sleep, Dancer in the Dark, The Time Traveler's Wife, Real Steel, X-men First Class, Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs, Taken, Pulp Fiction, TRON, and Tron Legacy (it was ok, not great).

Live Shows: D20 Burlesque

TV Shows: Arrested Development, Game of Thrones, Glee, Everything on AdultSwim and Comedy Central, Heroes, South Park, Family Guy, Simpsons, Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Shin Chan, Sea Lab 2021, Mythbusters, Fooly Cooly, Futurama, !2 oz. mouse, The Brak Show, Late Night with Conan O'Brian, Absolutely Fabulous, Law and Order SVU, Black Blood Brothers, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, The Colbert Report, Metalocalypse, Eureka Seven, Absolutely Fabulous, Bullshit, Bleach (japanese), Naruto (japanese), Iron Chef and just to balance things out, The O'Reilly Factor because it is funny how close-minded people can be.

Games: Settlers of Catan, League of Legends, Munchkin, Cards Against Humanity, D&D, Magic The Gathering, and Zombie Flux. There's more but I can't remember them all at the moment.

Music: Adele, Macy Gray, Metallica, Linkin Park, Alicia Keys, Luther Vandross, Fort Minor, Dilated Peoples, Marilyn Manson, Talib Kwali, Wu-tang Clan, Dance Dance Revolution, Mike Jones, System of a Down, KRS-ONE, Meatloaf, Jay-z, MetalFace Doom, Mad Villain, Victor Vaughn, Madlib, Quasimoto, Lootpack, Afroman, Kanye West (before he went crazy), Pink (first album only), Avril Lavigne (first album only), Michelle Branch, Missy Elliot, Kelly Clarkson (I love her singing, I have to finally admit it), Gnarls Barkley, Cee-Lo, Rammstein, Elton John, MC Chris, Tenacious D, Jet, old school Michael Jackson, Billy Joel, Nine Inch Nails, Tiesto, Armin Van Buuren, David Guetta, September, Dragonforce, and the complete box set of Cowboy Bebop soundtracks..
The six things I could never do without
Friends, Cheesecake, Music, Comedy, Sushi, and Rootbeer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy, which schools I'm going to choose to finish my Master's degree, working out with friends, and how insanely accurate this blog is http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
On a typical Friday night I am
More than likely Moderating okcupid (I apologize on behalf of all men. It seems 94% of us are assholes on the internet, but statistically it makes sense) or meeting up with friends and relaxing, or going to a Fetlife event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've never seen the Godfather
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
- If you can have an intelligent conversation about Cinnamon Toast Crunch
- If you know about the conspiracy behind NYC Brand Condoms.
- If you're GGG and/or listen to Savagelovecast
- If you play or want to learn to play Magic the Gathering
- If you want a workout buddy
- If you are a 99% enemy. I must face you in Mortal Kombat.

You should NOT message me:
- If you're anti-gay, anti-queer, sexist, racist, have a problem with dating overweight people ("body fascist" is the term that was used from one date I went on. Seriously.), or anything like that. People are different. Accept it.