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dementedsnake

20 / M / gay / Single

Rocky Point, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am restless, playful, and curious.

My Self-Summary

I'll keep this short, I won't be on for every day. I get on sporadically, so if you send me a message and I don't respond, I probably just haven't seen it yet.

Now, I'll get the basics out of the way.
#No, I don't like sports, although I'll admit I haven't given them a fair chance.
#Yes, I'm geeky, but not in the asthmatic, have no color kind of way.
#No, I don't have washboard abs, but you wouldn't be able to tell unless I took my shirt off.
#Yes, I can be picky, but that doesn't mean I refuse to try new things.
#No, I'm not being a jerk. I tend to say things that other people find offensive and mean. I really don't mean for what I say to come across like that, it's just a misunderstanding.
#Yes, I'm an atheist, and I'm not converting...to anything.
#Yes, I do love video games and television (except the idiotic commercials), so my ideal match would like them too.
#Yes, I do prefer my friends and dates not to stink. Please take a shower.
#No, I don't do any drugs, or smoke, but I do drink a little sometimes.
#No, I'm not in a coma, I just nap like a frickin' lion most of the time.
#Yes, I know my poofy hair looks really bad sometimes.
#And Yes, saying "Yes" and "No" before each line annoyed me too.

I'm a 20 year bi male. I set my profile to "gay", but only because I sick of girls right now and my Quiver matches are all women. Ladies, I still like you, but I need a break.

I live in the middle of freaking nowhere, NC. Well, that's not entirely true, I do live close to Wilmington; but it feels like nowhere sometimes. I like pretty much all of the arts. You know, music, movies, video games, etc. I have interests in many of the sciences, including biology, quantum mechanics (although I don't understand all of it), robotics/cybernetics, gadgets, and lots more.

Um, I'm easy going, which might be why some people call me lazy. I'm not really lazy, I have nothing against work, I just can't bring myself to do it if I don't feel like doing it. There's a fine line difference. I'm up for most anything. A night out, staying home with a movie, or kicking ass online in whatever game I'm currently obsessing over.

Honestly, I don't know what I'm looking for right now. I've been trying to get into college, but I'm having trouble getting financial aid. There are many things I want to try or do, but I guess the main thing I'd like to pursue would be the field of robotics and electronics. I'm not entirely sure, but I think that falls directly in the middle of both mechanical and electrical engineering.

Well, I don't really know what else to say. If I left something out, sorry. Just look at my test results and maybe you'll get a better idea about who I am.

Peace.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, I don't have many major goals. I'm trying to get financial aid to take some classes at my local community college. I've been looking for a job that doesn't involve whoring myself out, but not with much luck. I've been trying on and off to learn Japanese and Spanish, play the piano, get better at my crappy artwork, and learn a few things about computer building and electronics. There are some other things, but I'll spare you.

I’m really good at

Well, I'm not great at anything, but I do have a little skill in a lot of things. I can write decently most of the time. I'm slowly getting better at graphic design and digital artwork. I can make little lego mechs and stuff like that. Oh, and I recently discovered I can sing certain songs pretty well. Ok, that's a lie. My singing sucks, but that won't stop me from bellowing out some songs that's been stuck in my head all day long.

I've had years of experience trying to figure out and fix what's wrong with my computer, so I'm a little tech savvy. I enjoy cooking, especially if it's baked goods. And, well I used to be a decent artist when I was still in high school; although, I haven't done much since then that wasn't connected to a computer.

Every now and then I break out my keyboard and practice my mad piano skillz. Sometimes I splice together bits of songs and sometimes I just make some beatbox improv. (Translation: I make annoying noises that are fun to make.)

More or less, it depends on the day. Sometimes I have good days, and I'm an unstoppable force of greatness and creativity, and some days I can barely wake up on time.

The first things people usually notice about me

I really don't know, I've never asked. If I was being forced to guess by an evil dating website that was trying to steal my soul, then I'd have to say....my bad fashion sense, probably. That followed by my lack of social grace. *shrug*

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'll admit it, Harry Potter comes to mind first off. But if it's a decent sci-fi or fantasy book, I'll probably enjoy it. I've read lots of different types of books, but don't really have any favorites. If it's interesting, then I'll read it. The only reason I don't read as much as I'd like is that I don't buy books, and trying to read them on a computer monitor hurts my eyes.

My taste in movies is pretty much the same as my taste in books. Science fiction, fantasy, conspiracy thrillers, some action movies, oh, and comedies are always good. I also enjoy shows like "How it Works" and "Deconstructed". I follow some news and late-night comedy talk shows too.

Music, lets see... I don't have a list, but the first two bands that come to mind are Gorillaz and Linkin Park. I really don't experiment with my taste in music very often. Usually, I like a little bit of everything except country or heavy metal. I...uh, also have some songs that are probably best suited to a rave in some abandoned warehouse.

My taste in foods? Hm, well, I like spicy, sweet, tangy, saucy, and zesty foods the best. Pass me a piece of key lime pie with a bit of lime zest sprinkled over top, and I'll probably pass out from sheer joy.

The six things I could never do without

Basic necessities aside:

My gadgets. I love all the little electronic things I have lying around everywhere; even if most of them are a bit useless.

My music. 'Nuff said.

My alone time. Cause sometimes you just need to sit back and relax. Well, it doesn't have to be strictly just me, I don't mind having someone there to unwind with. I just sometimes need time away from the rest of the world...those damned bastards.

Well, my legs I guess. I like just walking around at times. And if I lost that ability, well, I'd be really upset.

Games. One of the best ways to relax -and- not be bored to tears; unlike things like sunbathing and meditation.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I want to do with my life. I tend to have my interests move in phases. I'll like photography one day, then video game design the next, and architecture after that. After that it'll be acting, then drawing, then computer design and building, biology, quantum mechanics, philosophy, emerging technologies like OLED and solar hydrogen. Then it'll be back to photography a month later.

Basically, I like so many things, that it's never the same from day to day. Sometimes I find myself thinking about how things work or why this might happen instead of that. I'm just curious about the world I guess. Then again, who isn't?

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing anything from playing video games with friends on Xbox Live, to riding aimlessly around town with my friend.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I suppose my test results. They may not be overtly personal, but they do say a lot about who I am. Feel free to WTF me and see what I'm like; or just message me and ask.

You should message me if

You want to go see a movie or something; or if you just want to chat, or think I look good.

Just so you know, I'd prefer to keep any romantic relationship within, say, 25 miles and 3-4 years of my location and age. If it's just chatting or anything else, neither are an issue. If you send me a message or IM me, and I don't respond or respond slowly or with lots of typos, then I'm probably busy with something or haven't been on in months. Just be patient, I like to talk to people, but I don't always have time to. Thanks in advance.

Oh, and just so you know, two of my personality "Awards" are full of it. I'll let you decide which ones.