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27 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
May 21
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
The older I get the more at peace I start to realize I am. I'd consider myself a unique soul. I'm inspired and always have been since I was a kid. With that I've been fortunate to achieve most of what I've set out to do for myself.

I've been living here in LA for close to eight years now and it's been and will probably remain to be the most important eight years of my life.

I have a wide circle of great friends and the best family a person could ask for. They'd all love it if I weren't on this site, (lol) but we'll just keep it between you and I that I'm on here. What's the harm in trying?

Some Friday/Saturday nights I'm out with friends at a local bar or trying a new place to eat, driving out to see my parents, or taking time to finally slow down, clean the apt and wash the car.

I actually find my best days are spent doing something spontaneous and many times outside the apartment. Long drives with no destination or walking through an undiscovered neighborhood, going to a movie (alone or not) with no preconceived knowledge of it being "a hit." I'm not one for saying no or ignoring a call late at night to go do something new or fun, just because. We only live once...

While all these things are really great what's even greater is sharing it with another person.

Let's make it happen!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an Environment Artist for games
I’m really good at
Discerning people, listening and letting a person be themselves with no judgements
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got a bright smile and a bold voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
I start a ton of books- Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglas, The Art Spirit, The Six Habits of Highly Effective People, Dean Koontz - From the Corner of His Eye, The Adventures of Alice in Wonderland, The Power of Now, True Happiness from the Inside Out, Mindset

Movies:
Zero Dark Thirty, The King's Speech, Lincoln, Flight, Man on Wire, March of the Penguins, The Godfather, Jaws, Shawshank Redemption, The Shining, Crash, Toy Story, Paranormal Activity, Halloween

If you like horror movies, or could be talked into watching them, we'll get along super well, lol

Music:
I could go on for days with music but lately it's been more on the Jazz and Hip-Hop side. With an occasional mix of Indie, Folk, Rock, Techno, and Trip-Hop. A small list would be:

Pete Rock & CL Smooth, The Roots, Common, Tribe Called Quest, Talib Kweli, M83, Miles Davis, Com Truise, Kanye West, Purity Ring, Neon Indian, Iron & Wine, Django Django, Madlib, The Doobie Brothers, The Allman Brothers Band, David Sanborn, Daft Punk, Sigur Ros, Hans Zimmer, John Williams, Radiohead, Pantera, Metallica, etc.
The six things I could never do without
1. People (Although I'm introvert I love being around people)
2. My family! (Come on now)
3. Music
4. Shazam (Sometimes you just gotta know what the name of that song is, lol)
5. Computers (Nerd side just kicked in)
6. Smiling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Colors, shapes, sounds, what people are thinking about, and self-improvement.

No joke, lol
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
No ifs, just do it!

;)