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58 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 40–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 11
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am young in spirit, energy, good shape, the usual stuff.

Everyone that meets me or knows me is surprised by my energy. I like to have fun and like to make people laugh, have fun, be happy...all that good stuff that is the secret of life. I am a good listener and a calm and steady person....but I am also spontaneous and ready to try something new at the drop of a hat.

I have a loving and caring family, both here and in the middle part of this country.

I like to take short trips (like to San Francisco) and also long trips (like to Asia and Europe)

I am a teacher. I am proud of that but am more proud of being a father. My two daughters are an incredible source of pride for me. They are both off to college pretty far from San Diego.

I was a singer and musician in the 80's. I earned my living that way for 5 years. Kind of a crazy business though. I did some acting in college and community theater and that was fun. Then I got serious and became a teacher. Masters degree too. You can't beat a steady paycheck.

I live in a very nice house, that has a huge yard (which is most unusual in San Diego) which is full of trees, flowers and little paths here and there. It is like living in a park in the city. It is great to wake up in the morning and look out the window to see all the trees and flowers as the sun comes up.
I believe that it is a good thing for a couple to have other friends to do things with. If you trust the person, it just makes the relationship stronger.

I'm one of the good ones. I would date me. I hope to find that one special person to share my life with. Somebody to love forever. That really is what everyone wants, right?
What I’m doing with my life
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Well besides working as a teacher trainer, I work on my house, take runs on trails near my house, play tennis occasionally, and see as many good movies as possible, travel... And I pick up my guitar every once in a while.
I want to get back into going to seeing plays.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My rapport with workers, teachers, pretty much anyone. I am easy to talk to and am a pretty calm, yet passionate person.
Having fun and being fun to around.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I suppose it is my red hair. And when I am not wearing glasses my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My daughters got me into reading some books they read, The Harry Potter, Dragon Tattoo and Running Games series of books. I like John Grisham, John Irving, Fannie Flagg, Patricia Cornwell, Christopher Moore (hilarious) and Timothy Hallinan books. And more.
Favorite book, and maybe favorite movie is To Kill a Mockingbird.
I have too many favorite movies. I like a Lot of movies cause I see a lot of movies. Name a movie and I have probably seen it and probably liked it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughters
My family
My friends
My health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting off this website.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends. Going to dinner, happy hour, movie. Or staying at home, reading or seeing what's on HBO.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Gee.... I will admit anything. I have no secrets or private stuff.
You should message me if
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You are interested in meeting a good guy that is fun to be around.