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  • Ages 35–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Apr 29
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Active, younger than my age.
Politically left inclined with a social conscience.
Non-violent and pacifist.
A bit intellectual but not pretentious.
Some aspirations to culture with a great love of music.
Humorous and witty.
Sometimes temperamental but not bad-tempered.
Possibly a bit romantic, but I tend to hide this.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Golf, swimming, snooker, music, reading, art galleries, friends and family.
Counselling on hold, while awaiting new client referral; looking for another voluntary agency.
Exploring Buddhism, but keeping an open mind.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am very reliable and hate letting people down.

I have an excellent memory. My musical and historical memory is formidable. I rarely need to read something twice.
My grasp of detail has made me an effective advocate.

I am witty.
I frequently made colleagues laugh.

I am very determined.
Childhood setbacks made me determined to succeed, and all my academic success dates from returning to education.

Being determined made me very good at my last job.
I quote a former colleague: "You get things done!"

I care about injustice and people's rights (particularly, those of the vulnerable).
I always fought my clients' corner, even when it placed me in conflict with my employer.

I believe strongly in equality and women's rights.
A female friend once said to a third party that I was the most feminist man she had ever met.

I like history, and have an excellent knowlege in this field.
I keep myself politically well informed.

Astronomy fascinates me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I can be counted on.

My honesty and forthrightness.

That I am witty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Science fiction (Ursula le Guin: The Earthsea books; The Left Hand of Darkness; The Dispossessed; The Telling); history and some historical novels (but not most of the romantic ones).

Some classical novels (the Brontes; Russian classics; I prefer reality in history).

Greek Tragedy.

Poetry (I particularly love the War Poetry of Wilfred Owen, which moves me profoundly).

2001 - A Space Odyssey; 2010; The Black Hole; The Lord of the Rings; The Golden Compass; Iris (Murdoch); Precious Bane; MacBeth (Shakespeare / Polanski); Richard III (Shakespeare / Olivier); A Man for All Seasons; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; Life of Brian; Barry McKenzie; There's Something about Mary.

Diana Rigg in Euripides' Medea - and as Klytaemnestra in the BBC production of Aeschylus' Oresteia.

I have a wide ranging interest in classical music and some folk music.

Curry; cheeze; pasta, rice.
But I'll be happy trying different things (within the parameters of my vegetarianism).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My music collection.
My golf clubs.
My Collected Works of Wilfred Owen (which I have cherished since I was 21).
Fruit juice and cheese.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fairness and social justice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Varies, but usually at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a bit shy to begin with.