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denstar16

41 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:44pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like to have a good time and try not to take myself too seriously, what's the point? i am keen on new adventures and comfortable in a crowd of strangers. you could pretty much take me anywhere and we would have a good time or at least i will.

I've been in SF over 14 years and love it, just a tad bit concerned with what is going on here at the moment. I see myself as intelligent, funny, goofball, and compassionate soul in a wrapper with a bit of style.

An eternal optimist (and true sag) with a huge heart and smile even through the crazy mess this planet and world is in. kind of think if we lose hope that change can happen, we have already lost. I believe strongly in the quote "change happens, but growth is intentional."

I live for the mountains and roam in the city. I like to give random high 5's on my bike rides or walking down the street. i chat with strangers often.

I'm looking for intimacy in its truest form, i'd hope amazing sexual chemistry and connection is a byproduct of those efforts. I don't care to date a bunch of women at one time to see which one fits best. I don't have the energy for it.

I've done the work to show up with emotional intelligence and compassion to be open to to life and love the sometimes the heartache it brings. I open doors and write sweet notes that mean something. I prefer a night cozy up in a tent under the stars, than fancy hotels. I don't much care what care you drive, or how much money you make, as a chase for these things will rarely bring true joy to ones life. I care about what you care about and how you bring it.

I think life ebs and flows, and i am looking for someone who is at my side for the good and the bad. rolls with the punches and comes back with a witty response to even the worst situations that will put a smile on my face. Someone who wants to travel the far corners of the world with me and will understand when i need to go it alone. i am looking for a partner, friend, lover, and someone not afraid to speak their mind. someone keen to stimulate me intellectually with thought, entertain me with humor, and ....

• i want to grow my own vegetables
• i like to make stuff
• i would like to go to Patagonia, Nepal, Africa, Machu Pichu, heliskiing in Haynes Alaska and the Chugach, and go to see the Tour de France. Surf all over...
What I’m doing with my life
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I am enjoying it. I work at a startup that brings together a lot of my passions in a really fun way. And startups are stressful, but I don't let it get to me.

I mediate quite a bit and really enjoying the experience of learning about Buddhism and being mindful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Connecting with people. Making people laugh and/or smile.
• I meditate daily to be present, not to be good at it.
• Starting projects.
• Skiing/snowboarding
• Cycling, for fun and transport
• Cooking pork
• Working with my hands
• Being happy
• Makin' out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and/or my nose (i am jewish it is hard to miss)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Windup Bird Chronicles, The Heart of the Sea, Three Cups of Tea, Let My People Go Surfing, Love in the Time of Cholera, The Alchemist, Into Thin Air, The Road, A People's History of United States, A Long Way Gone. Change By Design, The Curios Incident of the Dog at Night, 100 year of solitude, The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo. The Wind Up Bird Chronicles is amazing. Def favorite.

I like to read the nytimes, huffpost, Harvard Business Review, Vice, Fast Company, Powder, Outside, The New Yorker, more to come.,,,

I like to watch all of the Tour de France. All 20 stages. Love it. Weeds, Californication, the daily show, boardwalk empire, the wire, GOT, The Wire, House of Cards....

Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Hot Dog the Movie, The Bourne Identity, Tell No One (french). I can't really remember. I thought The King's Speech was great. I will always go to see a movie. I love documentaries and foreign films. I enjoy going to the commonwealth club to hear lectures about sustainability, politics, art, environment, social entrepreneurship, or authors, travelers, or anyone with something interesting to say. TED Talks.

I love to dance, mainly to live or electronic goodness, but am open to learning salsa or something like that. Seems like some sexy good fun.

As for music, i love it all. Especially breakbeats, electro, some house, jazz, classic, downtempo, indie, rock shizzle. What evs, Grateful Dead and Phish (i was a bit of a hippie growing up) LCD Sound System, Massive Attack, Glitch Mob, just not heavy metal or hardcore rap. Sean Hayes, old reggae, K&D, Lee Burrige, Modest Mouse, Built To Spill, Tribe, Gorillaz, Miles Davis, Talking Heads, and Willie Nelson, to name a few.. Classical in the am.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bike(s) (they either got stolen or cut in half whilst trying to be stolen in the last three months) So I guess I can do without them but i am certainly not happy about it.
Skiing/ snow/mountains
Creative conscious community
Yoga/Meditation
My family.
sweet lovin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to change the world, for the better.
How we go from 6 to 9 billion people on this planet and survive (not all the time luckily) which translates into sustainability.
What kind of dog i want to get (probably a rescue dog)
Compromising positions
Where i would go if i left SF.
Where it is snowing right now
learning how to surf
the next big idea
love, perhaps or some version of it.
Pinarello (fancy Italian bicycle)
being present
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing is ever typical in San Francisco. Wrestling alligators, reading Tolstoy, knitting sweaters for baby seals, pondering which place to get a burrito, wondering whom i will meet. Having fun.

Also i like to go to Urban Dharma on Friday nights. Sit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was on the Carnie Wilson talk show for a love triangle.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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if you think we might get along and i am more appealing than the last guy you saw. :)

This is not a checklist:
You love the mountains and like to spend time in them.
You are open to mindfulness.
Want to laugh a lot.
Think i might be the guy to warm your heart and curl your toes.
You like to ride bikes.
You have a dog or want to get one.
You are sweet.
Will give me a massage.
You are funny and outgoing (quiet types might get lost in my noise :) )

Or if you just wanna grab a drink and shoot the shit and laugh with me.