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deny_conformity

25 / M / straight / Single

Woking, United Kingdom

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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I am loyal, offbeat, and fun.

My Self-Summary

I am a rather peculiar individual, I guess I'm a bit unpredictable but also very easy going, I'm more looking for friends to do crud with. I'm into digital hardcore music and find it difficult to meet like minded individuals to go gigging with/etc. I'm an effusive individual and am usually misunderstood (good thing I'm only looking for friends really :P).

What I’m doing with my life

Very little at the moment, currently I'm working as a night carer in a nursing home (it combines two of my favourite things: nights and looking after others) but I'm also applying to do further university courses because I feel my mind is wasted doing this job (although I love interacting with my residents it doesn't pay well and is not mentally stimulating enough).

I’m really good at

I'm not really sure, I guess you'll have to get to know me to find out, therefore as one can guess, writing about my talents is definitely not something I'm good at. If anything I'm good at understanding others, though I tend to remain a bit of a mystery in the process (I guess it doesn't help that a bit all over the place and easily affected by outside influences).

The first things people usually notice about me

I'd like to say my eyes but depending on my level of sobriety it can also be my rather off beat sense of humour. I'm also usually a bit strange at first and can come off as quite cold and arrogant but once I warm up to people I'm much nicer to be around.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

For reading I quite like my true crime books (usually about serial killers and equally charming individuals), I also enjoy my Chuck Palahniuk and a few other random bits and pieces (this is always a bit of a tough question).
To watch I like trashy horror movies, Computer Animated kids films (you know like Open Season, Over the Hedge, Shrek, etc (what can I say I'm a big kid at heart)> I also enjoy action movies (I'm male so that's almost a given :P) and I'm a big fan of Superhero movies (Spiderman, Batman, all those lovely masked crusaders). Of course apart from this huge range of watch'ables I do enjoy watching anything if the company is right; except for Rom-Coms because I feel they create an unrealistic expectation of relationships and usually are not that comedic :P.
To listen to, music-wise I'm into the more abrasive genres like digital hardcore and punk but I also enjoy some good old fashion rave music (so happy hardcore, techno and anything with a good dancing beat). To chill out I enjoy a good bit of post punk and some general easy listening tunes, even new age and ambient if the mood is right. I guess my music taste can charitably described as bipolar, but I'm very flexible if the company is right.
To eat, I'm a big fan or trying new things, though left to my own devices I eat a lot of thai food if I've got the time though when working I eat a lot of junk food (to give me the energy to keep cheerful and bubbly all night).

The six things I could never do without

the internet, music, my mobile phone (didn't realise how much I used the thing until my SIM card died :P). Friends are definitely very important to me. As are good food and new experiences though being a poor care worker I can't afford these things very often.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future and what it will bring, I do not actually plan much though and really need to set myself deadlines on what I'm going to do.

On a typical Friday night I am

At the moment working but given the chance I enjoy a few drinks out with friends or an evening out in London at a gig.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Although not particularly private (if you know me in person you probably already know), my left nipple is pierced twice. If you want something more personal - I'm a bit of a softie and happy endings to kids films usually brings a tear to my eye (and I have no idea why lol).

You should message me if

You're interested in making a new quirky friend or need someone to attend a gig with (I will of course pay my own way). Don't be offended if I take a while to reply, usually I'll be thinking about how best to put something.