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43 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 3:06pm
- 5′ 9″ (1.76m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
To me, it's all about the stories. I want to hear your stories -- old and new, the things that made you laugh, pause, think, or cry; your biggest triumphs and your random MUNI ride this morning; your best trip to date, and the one you're currently planning; how you are juggling your career, outside interests, friends/family -- and most importantly, the color commentary. (I'm all about the color commentary.)
I'll tell lots of stories, and I'll make you laugh really hard.
If you enjoy fun, social, intelligent, clever guys that are excellent dinner dates and/or cards against humanity partners, who all of your friends and family will love and can always pick the best wine, regardless of the occasion - I'm easily in the top 33% of all of those guys that live in pac heights. Some would even argue top 25%, but I don't like to boast.
I could tell you about my job, how I like to travel, be outside and active -- and trust me, we'll cover all of that at some point -- but that's not going to compel you that I'm "the" guy (at least right now, anyway).
I'm looking for someone who is smart, funny, cute, generally happy about life and comfortable in their own skin. Seeking chemistry, laughs, lots of red wine, dinners out and at home, roadtrips near and far, and spending time with family.
Wedding toasts that make you laugh, then get a little verklempt
Making people laugh
Picking a great restaurant/movie/travel idea/red wine
Giving pep talks
Music: Radiohead, Arcade Fire, the XX, Phoenix, Wilco, Spoon, the Strokes, Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation, Kanye, Wu-Tang, LCD Soundsystem. Basically everything except country.
TV: Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Anthony Bourdain, the Wire. After much prodding by friends, I finally broke down and watched Game of Thrones (enjoyed it). And 'the Knick' -- incredibly good.
Movies: If it's playing at Sundance Kabuki, there's a good chance I'll want to see it. Inception, Rushmore, the Royal Tenenbaums, Little Miss Sunshine, Lost in Translation, Exit Through the Gift Shop.
Pretty voracious reader. Big fan of the New Yorker.
Food: just about everything, except corn and beets. Special fondness for good, authentic mexican, and always on the lookout for a great fish taco.
Comfortable, worn clothing -- like old jeans, pullovers and that fraying t-shirt that you stole, but can't remember the details
Laughter, storytelling and good, engaging conversation
Good red wine
Planning my next trip (recent trips include Bali, Thailand, and Mexico; looking forward to Barcelona, Italy, Australia and Scandinavia)
Trident bubble gum (4 out of 5 dentists can't be wrong)
How in the hell I'm going to make a dent in all of the wine in my apartment (was a bit overzealous joining wine clubs when I first moved here)
At what point in my life I will have my own washer/dryer
The sometimes unintentional comedy of online dating (don't really spend lots of time thinking about it, but some of the online interactions are pretty funny)
Why there isn't a singles bar at the top of Machu Picchu (since it seems like everyone has a pic on their profile)
Also, if you live more than ~25 miles or so from San Francisco -- while I'm very flattered in your interest, it's unlikely that I'll respond to any emails. This would include anyone living in China and the Philippines.
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