Hi well where to start. First I'm new to this, i've been in a committed relationship for the last 20 years, some good some not great. So needless to say things have changed since i was 18 and dating. So about me .... Im 38 and divorced. Those word seem to be defining today. Looking for someone to have some fun with and then maybe more. I am hard working....spend alot of time there. In the process of trying to continue my education. Im trying to figure out what exactly i do want from life. What i have discovered in the few months of being single. Im pretty freakin cool, and im ok being alone. I dont want to be but iam. I like to golf ( i sux at it), snow board, hiking, kayak, and my passion right now is roller derby (don't judge until you come to a bout..It is a very difficult sport.) Im a good cook, always tring some thing different. I lived in California for 15 years so I love mexican and well made seafood. In my free time I spent time with my lab Tucker, make specialty cakes for friends, play fantasy football... I love the Bears and the Mountaineers.. OK well that is the basics.
I guess in the few dates i have had i've learned a little bit about what im looking for so.....
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:
1)Someone who can support them selves. I can do this so i expect whoever i'm with to do so.
2)Someone who is an adult but knows how to have fun.( I have a very serious job, so im a big kid out of work)
3)Have a clue how to come at someone...i'm a lady don't start a text with nice rack...or you wanna have sex.....WHO THE HELL DOES THAT WORK WITH.... i'm not a prude..i like sex, cuddling and romance. Your not gonna get a response from me...Im not that girl.
4) Don't have more than 1 DUI we all make mistakes...adults learn from them...your 3 DUI means you don't give a damn about yourself.
5) Dont show up for a date wearing what you wear to lounge around the house in. I come to a date presentable. I don't need tuxedo attire.. but show up in sweat pants and there will be no second date unless were planning on a jog.
6)I dont expect someone in perfect shape..I'm a decent size girl...i like to eat ..I want whoever i'm dating to like food. That being said. I want someone who takes care of himself. I work out 2-3 times a week skate 2-4 hours a week. Not in perfect shape i'm curvy.. Dont say in your profile your in shape or average when your 50 lbs overweight. I will be able to tell when i see you and i will think your a liar.
7) Smell nice. I go out of my way to make you want to snuggle me do the same ( BTW in the last two weeks 2 perfect strangers have complimented me on smelling like cookies...always good to have someone wanna take a bite outta ya:)
8) i don't impress easy so flaunting your i phone and BMW doesn't do it for me. Want to impress me tell me the last time you helped your grampa or the homeless. Because your character is the only thing you truly have at the end of the day.

If that comes off sounding bitchy hopefully you will meet me and see thats not the case i just don't want to waste your or my time.
If you have made it through that. You deserve a cookie:)

I work full time +++. Take classes to get an advanced degree. I guess just look up I think i covered most of this....LOL Tring to live life to the fullest so i have absolutely no regrets. Trying to make sure my grandma would approve of person i've became. She was a wild women with a huge heart. The person i wanna be when i grow upo whenever that will be!! LOL.

I have to say i'm good at anything i try i just have the attention span of a squirrel.
I love to cook. I love to feed people so I hope you like to eat :),
Skating 4 wheels can barely stand on inline
Designing Specialty cakes thought up by minds of children (ie a 4 foot tall giraffe with a pink tongue, a two headed dragon from the movie how to train a dragon lol)
Making people laugh and snort wine out their noses b/c of the stupid stuff that comes out of my mouth, I an sarcastic and i use it to the fullest extent of my ability :)
Being a huge dork.....It's a special talent.

1)My personality... People say they know I'm there from the time they hit the door because the hear me laugh before they see me.... Take that as good or bad but it's me. I'm shy at first but once you get to know me watch out.
2)Porn star hair...Nothing more to say
3)My Jeep guys love the big tires lol

My favorite book is the Grapes of Wrath. I love steinbeck. I like Stephen King old stuff read over and over. Anything be Phillipea Gregory
Music- I like everything except Jazz, and classical music, i just never get it. I love miike snow, cake, the smiths, alabama shakes, wild rumpus. Really into the whole blue grass thing right now. I love country and alternative.
movies- anything with action Love the Transporter1-3, Matrix series,
anything by Tarentino
shows-the only tv i get to watch is football on sundays but i really enjoy it :), occassionally the big bang theory or and episode criminal minds ( with mandy patinkin)
food- i love a great steak with bernaise , chicken and waffles, sushi, tres leche cake, rum raisin ice cream anything with bacon....yeah sometimes that includes dessert.

Tucker(my dog), my skates, coffee or substitute currently CHAI, phone, bacon, toe nail polish especially sparkly

Hemodynamics , Mechanical Ventilation, How to get decrease PA pressures without the use of vasoactive drugs. Are there very many squirrles in Jamacia and how did they get there?? What i can surf on the internet to keep from studying. Am i really picky or are these the only available guys. And if so how can i put myself out of misery....or get and endless supply of batteries lol :)

Playing Derby,having a glass of wine watching a band with friends or working a long shift. Waiting for a message from u :) LOL

1)I love Karaoke. Cant sing at all but LOVE it.
2) for long trips i make playlist which the first song is always east bound and down
3)Orange is my lucky color and there is always something orange on my person:)

You like someone who is strong and independent. You like a girl that will make dinner but expects help with the dishes. You dont mind a woman with a laugh that is loud and infectious:) you simply want to grab a drink with a sweet girl, laugh a lot, l and have a great night ;)