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deschain88

31 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
A post-nomadic, post-hipster who's found a delightful home in Silver lake, Joseph seems to have graduated from his party-happy 20's and found his stride as he propels head-long into his 4th decade. Settling into a life of value and effort appears to be the soup du jour, and all he wants to know is "Who's coming with me."
What I’m doing with my life
I won't bore you with the specifics of my line of work (insurance), but I'm my own boss and I work hard.

I'm a founder of a local theatre company, I work on plays and such. I also play drums and careen in and out of various cover bands. These are hobbies, and I keep them so to preserve the joy I have for them.

I also run and workout, and try to eat well. I've started learning French (started!) and I travel to Mexico a lot.
I’m really good at
I've got a great sense of direction and I'm a great driver, which makes a killer combination. Argument, not as a disagreement but as a process of reasoning. I think I'm funny (at least people tell me all the time "you think you're so funny.") Keeping and fostering friendships. I've got a group of core friends that is over 10 years old. I can also take care of a girl on the dance floor.
The first things people usually notice about me
At first I usually appear very serious (this is usually me thinking or just totally neutral). People also think I'm smart, but only because I keep my mouth shut until I have something to say. I try to think before I speak and choose my words well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Dostoevsky and Tolstoy, Sartre and Camus, nonfiction, and Stephen King is a guilty pleasure. (I could list a lot here, but you get the idea. I'd say I read a lot.)
-Ghostbusters, Noises Off, Glengarry Glen Ross, Four Rooms
-I generally will pick up a book rather than watch TV, but when I do I'll watch Sportscenter or leftist propaganda (Daily Show/Colbert).
-Generally classic rock, jazz, 90s rock.
-Spicy (Indian and Mexican), I prefer my pasta cooked over al dente, Wine dry over fruity, IPA over stout, generally savory over sweet.

I eat an inordinate amount of chick peas.
The six things I could never do without
Books
Scotch
Theater
Drums
Live Music
Chick Peas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
(partial list)

Efficiency
Saber-metrics
What I'm going to read next
What I'm reading now
Radiation
The universe
Where I want to travel to
Why people believe in god
Why coincidences are common
Patterns
Am I making up patterns?
Why people still use chopsticks
Why I can never spell the work definitely right
Are they going to build a house next door and force me to move
Is the food I'm eating good for me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out on Friday night makes the weekend feels longer. (Fact.) I like trying new bars. I like art experiences of all types: seeing plays, museums, music, random stuff, I'm down to check out anything. Experience is paramount. You never know how something will hit you. I will, on occasion, be too tired and will stay in, cook, and read.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On more than once occasion I've put on music before I leave to go out to a party, and just stayed in instead and drank and danced.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I messaged you! :)

I should mention that I can be, and have been, in relationships with religious people. It is possible. But you better bring your shit to the table and be ready to talk about it. Dostoevski said something like "Mine is a faith forged in fire" and I'm bringing the furnace.

Also, I'm not looking for someone to be my whole world, and I don't want to be anyone else's. This has nothing to do with commitment, I'm looking to add to my world, not replace. I'm like the life I've built.

Bonne Chance!