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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:56pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello! Hola! Privet! Oi! Etc, etc. Thanks for stopping by.

Please allow me share my perspective on a profile. I don't think it's purpose is to be who I am in conversation, it's to convey information you may -or may not be- interested to know. Thus I say things I think are true that I'd never say in conversation as they would sound arrogant -not my style. Also, I don't think my purpose in writing is to get everyone to like me, I'm not a politician. Sometimes I find people are rather polarized either very much liking me or, occasionally, not so much.

I'm an active, athletic guy & smarter than the average bear. I come from a huge family and that remains important to me as we have fun together often. I enjoy a wide range of what life offers from immaturity to great conversations, sarcasm and wit, staying active, adventures -personal or adrenaline inducing, learning new things, and reflection. In short, intelligent, fun-loving and playful individual who has depth, values and character.

Specifically, I enjoy learning, playing lots of sports (mainly ice hockey), going to shows at smaller venues, art fairs & galleries, motorcycles, hiking, camping, and all manner of outdoor adventures along with time at home alone or with family. I enjoy learning about many things whether it be out of curiosity, desire for personal growth or a new hobby.

If you're familiar with Meyers-Briggs, I'm an ENFP or INFP. Historically I connect seamlessly with other NFs but get along with most people. If you're interested in the test, here's a couple URLs that Must Be Pasted into a browser address bar to function correctly:

Exceptions to a generally wide ranging appreciation for varied personality types: pretentiousness, pervasive insecurity, progressive ideologues, staunch traditionalists or rooted couch potatoes.

Lastly. If I opt to write, it's never generic. If it sounds pasted, consider the possibility your page may have little or no info that inspires unique responses. If not that, maybe I suck.

I am fun & funny, intelligent & witty, and adventurous & masculine.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it.

Here's a link/URL to some of my work. Let me know what you think:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you smile and laugh at things you shouldn't find humorous.

Protecting that which has been shared with me in confidence. That goes whether it's a friend or the vulnerability that grows in an intimate relationship. I take that seriously as among the highest ways to demonstrate the value the I place in another. I refuse to use that treasured information for personal benifit or to hurt them simply because they're hurting me.

Knowing people. I'm quite intuitive & I pay attention. If I'm around you very long, I'll pick up on things few may ever notice. That makes some people uncomfortable, others feel safe. I prefer the latter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Judging by comments I hear, most are about my hair, it's disheveled state or someone they think I look like.

However, occassionally there's comment about my irreverence, smart-ass-ness or, sometimes, uncommon perspective on a random topic but those are not the 'first' things noticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
* I enjoy non-fiction & classic lit
* heavy on documentaries & what ever I can learn from. What About Bob, Tombstone, Tommy Boy, Notting Hill
* All music -incl hip/hop & country
* I'm an omnivore, save sushi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a thinker, my brain is always digesting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No routine. I could be at a show, with my mentoring group, camping, on a road trip, sing something active, out with friends or content at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not naturally great at being organized or tidy -but I cooperate with said efforts
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You enjoy being a woman and want a real man -not a misogynist but neither not a tip-toeing, feminine type either.

A last note:
While a song's lyrics may convey a deeper meaning, it's often tempo & melody that first catch our attention. Similarly, outward attraction is a component of that initial spark, attraction & chemistry. Just as there are no 'perfect' songs, there are those that we each find perfect for us. That's what I'm looking for, that one I find inexplicably irresistible. Not perfect for everyone, perfect for me.