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destRUCTIVEUrges

34 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Johannesburg, South Africa

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:11pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.79m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently), Swahili, Other, Sign Language

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My self-summary
Hi, found someone I rather like on here, Love this Site :) so staying offline to see where it leads...

Mmmmm,

Well I is...

I'm quiet, enjoy the outdoors and quiet nights at home with my books... I seldom go out and "Party" but have been known to the last left standing on the dance floor.

I'm looking for something new, different interesting and possibly scary, I enjoy doing things slowly and am slightly shy at first but an extrovert at heart

oh and ps I love
dancing and portobello mushrooms

I spent the last few years working without really worrying about the important things in life like a partner... me and my last girlfriend split because the dynamics of our relationship changed after 3 years and we just figured we would make better friends in our new environment...- edit - after this met a great girl on here had 2 amazing years together but sadly our goals split, I'm happy here for now, she is happy working around the world -

I maintain a close circle of friends including the ex's and don;t believe in confrontation of any sort... i"ll fight out of a corner but will walk away from most arguments before they really take off...

I Love Louis Royo art and have three of his paintings in my room

The rest is just to count down to 500 words it's a work in progress so don't bother reading it....

no really don't bother

Seriously so many people actually read this and message me it rocks :)
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
The Colour of Magic · The Light Fantastic · Equal Rites · Mort · Sorcery · Wyrd Sisters · Pyramids · Guards! Guards! · Faust Eric · Moving Pictures · Reaper Man · Witches Abroad · Small Gods · Lords and Ladies · Men at Arms · Soul Music · Interesting Times · Maskerade · Feet of Clay · Hogfather · Jingo · The Last Continent · Carpe Jugulum · The Fifth Elephant · The Truth · Thief of Time · The Last Hero · The Amazing Maurice and his Educated Rodents · Night Watch · The Wee Free Men · Monstrous Regiment · A Hat Full of Sky · Going Postal · Thud! · Wintersmith · Making Money · Unseen Academicals · I Shall Wear Midnight · Raising Taxes

The Eye of the World • The Great Hunt • The Dragon Reborn • The Shadow Rising • The Fires of Heaven • Lord of Chaos • A Crown of Swords • The Path of Daggers • Winter's Heart • Crossroads of Twilight • Knife of Dreams • A Memory of Light (The Gathering Storm) • New Spring (Prequel)

Wizard's First Rule • Stone of Tears • Blood of the Fold • Temple of the Winds • Soul of the Fire • Faith of the Fallen • The Pillars of Creation • Naked Empire • Chainfire • Phantom • Confessor

At Crydee, Pug, an orphan boy is apprenticed to a master magician. Suddenly the Kingdom is aswarm with alien invaders, destroying the peace of the kingdom. Pug and his friend Tomas are swept up into the conflict, with Pug's destiny leading him through a rift to a new world.

[edit] Plot summary
In the twelfth year of the reign of Rodric the Fourth, an orphaned kitchen boy named Pug was made an apprentice magician to the magician Kulgan in Crydee. An indifferent student of magic, he rose to high station by saving Princess Carline, Duke Borric’s daughter from mountain trolls and became squire of the Duke's court. Following the discovery of a foreign ship wrecked after a storm and reports of bizzarrely dressed warriors appearing in the forests, Pug’s liege, Lord Borric set out for the coast to pass out the warning. Their travels were delayed however by dark elves and they were rescued by dwarves and their leader Dolgan who led them through a series of mines to the coast.

Shortly after in arriving in Krondor Lord Borric’s band were instructed to carry on to Rillanon, however they were refused any help from the mad King in the capital and turned away. War erupted between Midkemian and the otherworldly Tsurani. The Duke's troops engaged in a fierce battle in an effort to locate and destroy the rift in spacetime which gave access to the Tsurani, but Pug was captured and brought back through the rift to the Tsurani homeworld. After years of stalemate fighting on Midkemia by the two opposing forces, Pug returns as a magician, a Great One, the Tsurani name for practitioners of magic. Discovering that Pug is alive and prospering as a magician, the dying Duke Borric revealed that he had adopted Pug into his family, also giving him an island – Stardock, Where Pug begins an academy of magic. Duke Borric also reveals that Martin is his son and the older brother to Lyam and Arutha. Upon Borric’s death, Lyam became Duke of Crydee and commander of the Armies of the West. Shortly after, King Rodric appeared at the camp after hearing the news of Borric's death. King Rodric himself then led a charge against the Tsurani, breaking their ranks and driving them back. When the army returned victorious it is learnt the King suffered a mortal injury. While dying, the King's sanity seemed to have returned and he apologizes to Lyam and names him heir to the throne.

With his death, Lyam assumed command, and he sued for a peace treaty with the Emperor Ichindar. During the peace treaty, the two rulers, with Pug as the interpreter, began on good terms by exchanging gifts. By chance, the elves and dwarves mistakenly perceived treachery, and the truce dissolved into an all-out conflict. Pug sought to close the rift, and with Macros the Black, succeeded in severing the connection between the two worlds, leaving stranded numerous Tsurani soldiers in Midkemia, which included Kasumi. The Tsurani settled down in the city of LaMut not long after.

Lyam becomes king and there is no dispute between him and Martin (Duke Borric's illegitimate first son)

Well okay the next bits important :)
I am quiet, full of adventure, and slightly crazy.-edit- I have been asked to take slightly out-
What I’m doing with my life
Work, and finding ways around work

In my spare time I like to go for walks in nature, sailing and SCUBA diving. if I can't get out of JHB I rather enjoy a good book.
I’m really good at
LOL...

Life... i seem to have managed that for three decades

I guess honestly I'm really good with people, I seem to get along with everyone anytime... i do have my dislikes I struggle to keep a convo going with really ignorant or arrogant people.

Oh and with a couple of hundred dives under me I guess i SCUBA well too...
The first things people usually notice about me
My Sense of humour, I guess i have never noticed myself
oh and my complete lack of fashion sense i wear what i feel comfy in...

Don't get me wrong i can do the whole Jacket tie thing for the right reason i just prefer my Takkies, jeans and cargo pants
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books... Thousands, literally my private collection is currently just under 3000 books, but mainly Fantasy _ Wizards First Rule _ Wheel of Time_ anything by King and Robert Jordon, Terry Goodkind

Movies... Anything cute, I really enjoyed Hoodwinked and Unhappily ever after but am a thriller fan by heart My ultimate movie must be usual subjects i guess...
Lol lists - Guy Ritchie, Tim, Quinton, whoever did lucky number Slevin, that thriller with pet dick what's his face, how to train your Dragon, All the new DC movies... Can hardly wait for Avengers..

TV... I hate tv but any Chuck Lorre, Kripke series are great, I found a liewe heksie box set the other day... Seriously thinking of buying that

Music... always a hard one, ummmm, I really enjoy classic rock, most of the 80's, but i'll listen to anything good that suits the moment except Rap and Country

I do love
Portishead
Dirty Skirts
Coldplay
Acid Jazz

Food: Thai
Korean
Italian
Lasagne
Sushi,
Anything except Brussel Sprouts, Tofu, Afal and anything slimy
The six things I could never do without
My SCUBA Gear
Mouthwash
Pocket knife
Toothbrush
A Good Book
:)

All thou i don't need it my blackberry is a key to survival in the city....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Peanut butter and more peanut butter
Multi-verses
S and M Theory(string/membrane) not BDSM, well S&M a little less at least ;)
Ooohhh and macadamian nut butter
Oh and nuts...

Squirrel
On a typical Friday night I am
At home
Once in a blue moon I go to Red Room but that's Saturday nights
weekdays middle of the month are good evenings for going out for dinner or at least just desert
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not really all that private,
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Seriously? If you want, if you have questions, thoughts, a sense of humour or have been to " school for kids to learn to read good and stuff"