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spontaneous, adventerous, and eccentric

My self-summary Propose an edit

kind of cliche but i like to enjoy myself, whatever that may be at the time, i enjoy the company of a small group of people, not so much the large crowds. i believe myself to be kind, honest, giving and considerate and i tend to keep the same company ( for the most part :/ )

i believe that the best way to get to know someone is by experience and the progression from being an acquaintance, to friend to close friend to more then close friend to OMG do i like her or do i not, am i just feeling this way because were such close friends omg i don't wanna ruin this but she is so amazing and i want to be close with her what should i do...to eventually becoming bf/gf and all of the fun steps in between.(hmmm...anything i missed...nope)

i enjoy the outdoors a lot, i like to keep fit by going to the gym or by running/hiking/"love"/you name it, not a health freak by any means but i used to weight 300 lbs and i am very adamant about not doing that again so i suppose i am a little paranoid about it. i do it because it makes me feel good, i don't expect everyone to do it, its not a requirement to change your lifestyle but its just something to note...
i like helping people (hence the EMT and medical field thing) to a point although i refuse to be an enabler of someone who is just abusing people because they are to lazy to do anything with themselves or to seek help.

a good person for me would be someone who would understand and appreciate the intricacies of life ( oh is that all huh), be a decent person, also being adept with a movies and a game her or there wouldn't hurt either i suppose but i am trying to be realistic

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Right now i am working as an EMT at a private company and at my local fire dept. I am still in school, i just graduated from Suffolk Community, and started at Farmingdale and majoring in Biology. My eventual goal is to graduate from Farmingdale and take the M CATS which i am also beginning to study for (fingers crossed) and get into medical school to be a doctor. i know that it is a very long road but at the risk of using a lame metaphor...the long roads are the most rewarding ( wha whaaaa...) but seriously, that is my dream and i am trying to follow it as far as i can. i try and stay in shape, i run and go to the gym/ do random little kid freeform acrobatics in my backyard when i have the time/ i am in the right frame of mind, its fun though to sometimes let loose and forget that you are acting like a little kid and just lose yourself for a while and become one, its very liberating every now and then

I'm really good at Propose an edit

hmmm... i suppose lots of stuff, I'm a decent runner or at least i try to be, I'm good with most sports except basketball, if you think that picking up heavy objects is an important skill well then i have good news for you because I'm pretty good at the gym too..... -_-...

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

probably an odd one but maybe my chin....I don't know but i have been told, i have an athletic build as well, most people comment on this too. a couple of people have told me that i bear resemblance to christian bale but i don't see it.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

fav movies 1-5
1-3 LOTR trilogy
4 the dark knight
5 die hard

Books: LOTR trilogy
Harry potter saga

Food: japanese

i also like many many other things so dont think that this is all that i am about but these are in my top favorite ones, have made me think the most and are the most inspirational in my opinion

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

six things i could never do without: i am going to make two lists...list 1 is the things that i could never do without in a survival situation and list 2 would be the things i could never live without if it is just normal life....

list 1: knife, pot, weather appropriate clothes, a girl (companionship..c'mon)
rope, lighter
list 2: DVD collection, game collection, car, laptop, girl (c'mon) new computer

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

everything and everything...i admit that i am a bit of a daydreamer...i can go from imagining what i am going to have for breakfast to me triumphantly and heroically saving the world, to pondering the meaning of the universe during my shower.....i suppose that i do tend to go into very deep and philosophical grounds during my daydreams but i think that it gives me a very unique perspective on things in life. All in all i suppose that i spend a lot of time dreaming about the future...and also the past, the what if's the could Be's and all of that good stuff.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

ha....well it isn't hard to locate me, i am usually at my house either on the computer helping to rid the world of terrorism one frag at a time, if this was a couple of months ago i would have had to say playing WoW, but that isn't the case anymore. i might be at a friends house talking with them about this and that or maybe at a movie with a couple of friends..nothing to big, but it makes for good times. occasionally i go out with some of my friends to a house party and break it down white guys style ( so not at all) and just have fun!

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

AIM- gr8jabronie (back in the old days of middle school when i was into WWF)

You should message me if Propose an edit

YOU CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!.........no not really, message me if you find the above intriguing, or it wouldn't hurt to think that i am good looking either

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destind4u2: 182 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Looking For
Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn't matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
N/A
Kids
N/A
Pets
N/A
Languages
English (Fluently)

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