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28 Helena, AL Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-37
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 21
Open relationship
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm still figuring myself out. When I was young, I'd intended to be rich and accomplished by now. It didn't work out quite as I'd planned. People who know me well would probably say I'm an anxious, quirky hot mess. I have some pretty extreme ups and downs. But I like to think that I'm a good friend and a good listener who can be great emotional support. I also love to laugh, even though my jokes tend to be incredibly corny. I am extremely straightforward and sometimes too honest.

My liberal/socialist politics probably define me to a great degree. Bernie 2016!
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working as a bedside nurse at a little country hospital. It's definitely not where I saw myself ten years ago, or ever, really. I'm certain that this is not where I'm meant to be.

I'm exploring more options in nursing, and more broadly, with biological science. I definitely see myself going back to school in the near future.

I care about politics and social justice. I want to make a difference and improve the world. How? I dunno.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Biology. I also enjoy teaching my patients about their conditions and the medications they're prescribed.

I am an okay cook (well, I can follow a recipe like a boss).

Arguing on Facebook.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My long hair or loud laughter, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Comics: American Gods, Harry Potter, Gaiman's Sandman, Oglaf.

Movies: Men in Black, Inglorious Basterds, Snatch, The Avengers, Iron Man, Thor, Guardians of the Galaxy, Osmosis Jones, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (1990)

Shows: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Firefly, Doctor Who, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann, Gravity Falls, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Star Trek: TNG, Star Trek: DS9, Attack on Titan, Hemlock Grove, Chopped, Restaurant: Impossible, The Boondocks, Samurai Champloo, Rick and Morty

Music: Pink Floyd, Radiohead, The Beatles, Oasis, Gorillaz, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Blur, Joy Division, Aurelio Voltaire, Daft Punk, Queens of the Stone Age, Blue Oyster Cult, Barenaked Ladies, System of a Down, Two Door Cinema Club, The Glitch Mob, Death Cab For Cutie, MGMT. Just kinda all over the place! I give anything a shot.

Food: Chinese food, chicken (especially fingers), hommos, barbecue (that's BBQ, y'all), Nutella, asparagus, Italian food, Mexican food, my mom's red beans and rice, brownies and chocolate chip cookies (warm and fresh, preferably)

Video games: Summoners War, Pokemon, World of Warcraft (not playing currently), Final Fantasy VIII, Final Fantasy X, The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, Fire Emblem series
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Alcohol swabs/hub scrubs (I can't even.)
Black eyeliner.
Hand washing.
Singing in my car.
Talking about politics and social justice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion and politics and the intersection of the two. The Liberal Agenda. The Feminist Agenda. The Gay Agenda. How sad it is that our society will never ever reach the socialist utopia depicted in Star Trek.

"People don't see each other as who they really are. They see each other as they would like them to be." - some guy I don't really know

How much I want to start playing Magic: The Gathering again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
treating 5 chest pain patients along with one other patient with a completely random disease.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had gastric band surgery to lose weight, and I regret it.

I live with depression, and am currently under the care of a wonderful therapist and psychiatrist.

I am newly involved with my local BDSM club. I adore rope bottoming, but femdom was my first kinky love.
You should message me if
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You are interested in social justice and liberal causes!

You want love and friendship.

You like to touch and be touched.

You're a skinny, tall guy with long hair, especially if you're shy. I will probably automatically reply to you. (That's not to say I won't reply to folks who don't match this description! I just really, REALLY like skinny tall guys with long hair...)