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caffeineddreamer

24 Asheville, NC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:43am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm just a regular guy. I love movies, videos games, black coffee, green tea, good beer, awesome wine, and chilling out. I have a curious mind and an itch for adventure. There are many things I want to do in life but just haven't had the resources to achieve those goals. I am doing what I can to change that this year.

Graduated with my Bachelor's in Entrepreneurship with a hope to open and run my own business. I'm getting back into writing hardcore wise. I'm also working on my own series of novels from the random nightmares I would have as a kid.
What I’m doing with my life
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Netflix, Crunchyroll, and video games....
In the video game area, I am currently playing through Dying Light and all of the Tomb Raider games.

I have begun to change myself for the better. New job, new apartment, and a new outlook on my future. I am also working on starting two blogs and a couple freelance services. I finally feel like a new person.

Saving up for my very first vacation! I am trying to go to Italy on a wine tour. Because wine... :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well... I am good at video games. I love playing them. I have played since I was a young lad.

Being my own person. I'm the type of person you would see dancing in a laundromat while folding clothes, not caring who is watching.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think people are generally surprised when they actually get to know me. When people ask those "get to know you" type questions, the reactions I notice are always some sort of shocked look with some statement about how it is unusual or something like that. I don't know what people expect out of me though...

I have been told that my outfits are an intense mix of business casual and Final Fantasy character. I will always hold that comparison close to my heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books:
Dante's Inferno, anything Clive Barker and Stephen King. Actually you might as well make that anything horror, mystery, or thriller.

Favorite Music Artists:
Celldweller, Alabama Shakes, Pendulum, Purity Ring, CHVRCHES, Sleeping with Sirens, Asking Alexandria, Cake, The Decemberists, Between the Buried and Me, The White Panda, Ludacris, 80's music, Figure, Nero, and so many others...

Favorite Shows/Cartoons/Anime:
The Following, Bojack Horseman, Dead Like Me, American Horror Story, Weeds, Anything Gordan Ramsey, Eden of the East, Attack on Titan, Beyond the Boundary, Regular Show, Adventure Time, The Devil is a Part-Timer, Kill la Kill

Favorite Movies:
It Follows, Beyond the Black Rainbow, You're Next, 28 Days Later, The Signal, Midnight Meat Train, Human Traffic (a comedy actually), Night of the Living Dead (1968), any crime or drug related documentary

I really just watch many different kinds of movies and Documentaries...

My favorite food is Thai but I also just love food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends
Parents
Wine
Coffee
Computer
Video Games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life or maybe the next story I want to write.

How to continue in my quest to open my own string of businesses.

People and their everyday interactions.

The severe trust issues I have toward people and how to overcome them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not at work I am most likely figuring out what to get into. I like to go out downtown a lot. I'm always down for some brews.
You should message me if
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...you find anything I said interesting. and would like to go for coffee or something.

To be completely honest, I don't expect any message for anyone. If you do message me, I will gladly talk to you. I would even grab a coffee with you.