Some things that are important to me in a partner include - intellectual curiosity, a certain level of personal maintenance like eating somewhat healthy and getting some exercise, a willingness to go dancing from time to time even if you have no idea how and two left feet, a silly ass sense of humor, measured spontaneity.
It's also important to me to find someone who not just accepts - but actually likes and enjoys with me the fact that I cross dress from time to time for fun events. Yes, I like to put on women's clothes and guess what, I look smokin' when I'm all dolled up ;) I love it and feel sexy as hell and am looking for someone who agrees. Extrabigplus if you enjoy dressing up or costuming as well. Love events like the Edwardian Ball, Burning Man, Ren Faire, and am always on the look out for smaller, regional ones.
After many years of inexplicable self imposed sexual repression, I have experienced an awakening over the past year and burst into a fireball of ecstatic, passionate, sensual, cuddly, warm, kinky, playful sexual energy.