Been a little reclusive lately, but spring is in the air and I'm feeling it! Looking for some fun people to do new things with. If this sounds like you, don't be shy! Especially if you have some random thing in mind that you'd like to attend with a fun date!

Some things that are important to me in a partner include - intellectual curiosity, a certain level of personal maintenance like eating somewhat healthy and getting some exercise, a willingness to go dancing from time to time even if you have no idea how and two left feet, a silly ass sense of humor, measured spontaneity.

It's also important to me to find someone who not just accepts - but actually likes and enjoys with me the fact that I cross dress from time to time for fun events. Yes, I like to put on women's clothes and guess what, I look smokin' when I'm all dolled up ;) I love it and feel sexy as hell and am looking for someone who agrees. Extrabigplus if you enjoy dressing up or costuming as well. Love events like the Edwardian Ball, Burning Man, Ren Faire, and am always on the look out for smaller, regional ones.

After many years of inexplicable self imposed sexual repression, I have experienced an awakening over the past year and burst into a fireball of ecstatic, passionate, sensual, cuddly, warm, kinky, playful sexual energy.

On "sabbatical" between a twenty year long tech career and jumping into one of the biggest projects of my life. (i.e. I've got lots of free time and I'm not broke).

Just getting into yoga and exploring some of it's variations. Really enjoying it.

I've been rather introverted for the past few months, but spring time is bringing me out of my shell.

Tech, cooking, talking, listening, keeping my cool, chess, wasting time, making a mess, being a friend. Whatever I apply myself to and screw up a few times.

I look just like someone else they know.

I love film, read a lot (in phases), listen to a broad variety of music.

Just started reading "Of Human Bondage" by W. Somerset Maugham. Last read "Foucault's Pendulum" by Umberto Eco. Huge fan of Tom Robbins, Neil Stephenson, Dr Seuss, Orson Scott Card.
Really enjoy well crafted, thought provoking science fiction. (That last sentence sounds like a Netflix category... ).

Just watched Primer. Need to see that a few more times. Very interesting. I feel inspired by amazing films made independently and on a tiny budget. Love a lot of works by The Coen Brothers, Jean-Pierre Jeunet, Quentin Tarantino, Christopher Nolan, Darren Aronofsky, and now Shane Carruth.

Love to discover or frequent awesome little hole in the wall restaurants. Cooking is a meditative pleasure for me. Usually I'm pretty good at it.

Over the past couple of years, I've gotten really into the House Music scene going on in the Bay Area! Such great stuff being produced and an amazing vibe and community. Although I've been listening mostly to that lately, I do enjoy a very wide range of different music from Jazz, to Punk, to Classical, to Rap, to Heavy Metal. Pretty much anything other than country or elevator music.

Family. Friends. Music. Good food. Libations! Down time.

Thinking. So meta.
Style. I has it. When I'm not tripping over my own feet and spilling my drink down my shirt. I've been called charmingly clumsy. Also just charming or just clumsy.
Sex! No kidding?
Tattoos I want. I have none yet.
Politics. Unfortunately.
Food. Finding the gluten free ones.
How the world can be improved.
How freaking cool the world is!

Visiting family.
Chillin' wif frienz.
Dancing my silly ass off.
Sleeping.

You're sweet, smart, fun.
You have a specific event in mind that you'd like to go to with a silly, fun, complete stranger. Outdoor music? Indoor music? Art galleries or festivals? Off the grid parties? How Weird St Faire?Random hiking trails? Science museums? Hidden restaurants? Weekly events? You name it!