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43 Alameda, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 20
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I like to think of myself as a free thinker. A little eccentric maybe, but in a refreshing way. I grew up in the country untainted by TV and mass media. I'm capable, energetic, optimistic, and still a hopeless romantic.

This is what my BFF has to say about me: freaky dancer, curvy woman, flirty girl, astute student, life long environmentalist and humanist, green gardener, outdoor enthusiast, chocolate connoisseur, improvisational cook, down to earth country girl, self confident lady, quirky california native, poor speller, creative artsy type, Obama mama, reggae rocker, super hero in progress looking for her side-kick.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making it better day by day :-) Working toward the ultimate balance- work, play, love.
trying to lead by example
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
guessing the end of movies
cooking crepes, and blackberry pancakes
giving awesome gifts
massaging sore shoulders
keeping a sense of humor
appreciating the little things
keeping it real
saving lives under pressure (no big thing)
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and my je' ne sais quois
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love the movie Ameli- Its so French and quirky and romantic.

I am currently reading , The Language of Flowers. Its the kind of book you can't put down yet also want to take your time and savor every page.

Not a big TV fan, but do love me some John Stewart! Mad Men I like too.

Music is an instrumental part of my life-haha. Live shows or good friends strumming on the guitar are always the best! Will be seeing Jack Johnson at the greek later this summer. Generally I like some booming bass to get me moving!
Also love NPR and KALX
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Depends on my mood but at times can be any of the following in no particular order:
Friendship/ hugs
Dancing/physical movement
The ocean/nature

notice the creative use of the / helps you get more out of life!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the art and science of happiness
the sad state of too many things in this world
the incredible overwhelming beauty and serenity of nature
self actualization
my children's wellbeing
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out on the town spending my million $$$ :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd like to be a back up dancer in a music video. I'm practicing many hours in my living room just in case Beyonce needs a white chick with a big booty to shake it in her next video!
You should message me if
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you are not afraid to go off the grid sometimes .

If you don't take yourself too seriously, and you can make me giggle.

You know how to make a date fun and not feel like an interview.

You have something of value and substance to offer in a relationship, and to the world.

I am not looking for a "hook up" or a much younger guy.

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