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37 Greensboro, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Life is a ride, let's enjoy it. I'm hoping to meet a woman who has a great smile, a sharp wit, and allows herself to have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been in North Carolina almost two years now after having spent several great years in Nashville, Tennessee. I was born in San Diego, spent my childhood in Texas, and the high school years took place in East Tennessee. There was a year in there that I also lived in Kansas. So yeah, I kind of moved around a lot.

I'm a software engineer which means things get pretty wild. It is a reckless lifestyle full of intrigue and danger. You just have to take it moment by moment and try not to dwell on the lives you have taken. ...wait I might have exaggerated that last bit.

I'm fortunate enough to have a career, and lucky enough to work for a cool company that does not tie me to a particular city. I can be anywhere with an internet connection and do my job. So distance doesn't really matter, just looking for someone I truly connect with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile
Having the patience of a saint
Trivia games
Getting a sunburn
Underground fight clubs
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Damn, you are white!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Will Ferrell is my personal hero, Movies that can make you think (Donnie Darko, Enemy, Memento), and anything directed by Terrence Malick. I can be coerced into going to see the latest rom-com as long as the next one can be a twisted horror flick.

TV: The Walking Dead, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Archer, Game of Thrones, Girls (I got hooked by an ex, don't judge me damn it), The Daily Show, Key and Peele, The Big Bang Theory, True Detective, House of Cards

Music: 90's grunge makes me nostalgic. Even though I lived in Nashville for 12 years, country is rarely in my rotation. I'll rock out to Beethoven and Mozart in the evening, I told you its a wild life.

Food: I'll try anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sunscreen
2. Personal transportation
3. WiFi
4. Q-tips
5. Good traveling company
6. Wikipedia
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. I have a rather over active imagination so whether or not this is time well spent could be brought into question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing volunteer work as a paranormal investigator. Trying to be a show runner for CSI: Triad. Completing my semi-autobiography containing fictional accounts of non-fictional events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a fear of heights. My thought process is that maybe a few tries at skydiving will be the remedy. But, as it turns out, it is kind of hard to convince people to jump out of a plane with you.
You should message me if
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- You saw my profile photo and thought to yourself "A brown jacket with a black shirt WTF?!?" I need help, I have zero fashion sense.
- You think Paul Rudd is funny
- You can pat your head and rub your tummy at the same time