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30 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
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envisioning and creating change in the health care system. writing lyrics and singing them: ) sauntering about. connecting amazing people to each other... being kind to strangers. cultivating deep friendships. appreciating beauty. dancing. Appreciating subtleties. observing myself. engrossing myself in intelligent conversation as much as possible. being still. making large amounts of chai!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being soulful.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my big curly hair... (if its not wrapped up). and people have mentioned my green eyes: )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Charaka, Ashtang, Khalil Gibran, Vivekananda, Rumi, Hafiz, Coelho, mostly non-fiction and poetry outside of school these days.

I don't spend much of any time in front of the tv (in fact I put it out on the street a few years back as it was just taking up space) I love good film… oh God this new film starring saul williams "Tey"…so beautiful go see it if you can find it. Documentaries, french cinema, movies filmed in foreign locales and the occasional espionage... and sometimes a really senseless comedy can hit the spot.

"music is my sanctuary, music is my life!" (props if you know who sang that: )
I have range... I love sound in many forms and expressions...
experimental, live, I can appreciate good production and mostly anything with soul! The list is too long to indulge... it would be more fun to just share together. I grew up on soul, blues and jazz… my parents were musicians and I can't remember many moments without music it is deep in the fabric of my being.

I love to cook and appreciate a fine meal. Don't eat meat but don't judge those that do... I believe food is medicine and is an incredible tool for healing if we so understand its properties… if I'm eating out I love thai/laos, ethiopian, indian (north and south), soul food, mexican, I appreciate a good pizza (but don't find myself eating them very often), rice and beans always do the trick (maybe that is almost universal) home cooked/ slow cooked... cooked with love and good vibrations is most important.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my voice.
Al Green.
my teachers.
The sun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to connect more deeply with divine presence.. How we can transcend patterns that no longer serve us..human nature vs. culture.. the old world. Ayurveda. Universal truths.. singing. subtle beauty. my community<3 living sustainably with mama earth. how to be a better healer. Solitude.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out dancing to deep soulful afro house... kickin it with folks... appreciating the rich artistic talent in the bay. kickin it solo. going on an adventure; )
You should message me if
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-are someone actively trying to live within integrity of your values
-like to be spontaneous
- would rather sit for hours talking and contemplating philosophy than sitting on the computer or watching tv.
- are soulful
- practice patience
- appreciate beauty
- care about cultivating positive change
- can laugh at yourself: )
- value solitude and community
- are a generous soul
-are a whole person (not looking for someone to complete you but someone who compliments and mirrors the person you embody)

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