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deziner22

59 Tarrytown, NY Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
WHAT I DO... I have a branding, marketing communications, graphic design company. Each day has a new challenge to solve, and it never gets dull. I've also taught as an adjunct at the New School, SVA and Westchester CC.

WHO I'M LOOKING FOR... I'm looking for a unique man who is worldly, smart, hard-working, soft-hearted, with a good sense of humor... a sweetheart who is confident, relaxed, trustworthy, and compassionate. Wise and mature but still has a youthful spark. Someone to settle in with, travel with, share my life with.

WHO I AM... I'm spiritual, Buddhish, home-loving, contemplative, – the creative artistic type. I'm low-key, mellow and easy-going. While I've lived on both coasts, traveled quite a bit, and enjoyed a good dose of adventure -- now I want a partner to cocoon, cook, snuggle, binge watch series, etc. with.

I like to dance (Zydeco, Salsa, Swing) and also do yoga, and enjoy hiking. But my partner doesn't have to do it all. Companionship and conversation is key. I'm NOT interested in HOOKING UP. I want a connection that evolves "organically"  -- if we like each other, I'll  want to get to know you over a few weeks.... whatever it takes to feel at ease.

RANDOM NOTES:
- I'm looking for someone local... hopefully within 50 miles or so of Tarrytown, NY.
- I'm studying Homeopathy - a gentle and effective form of alternative healing that is very popular around the world.
- My hair is naturally silver/blond. It started to change color when in my teens.
- I don't lie about my age. I was born in 1956.
- Sometimes I wear my hair curly, and sometimes straight.
- I live by the golden rule, practice a bit of Buddhism, blended with a pinch of the worlds great religions.
- I have 2 very affectionate cats.
- If you are married - even just a little bit - please walk on by.
- I will not send $ to anyone who is stranded overseas (unless you are related to me... and even then.... )

May you be well, peaceful and happy.
MAY LOVE SURROUND YOU.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Besides work... taking care of my house and garden, listening to music, dancing, laughing, hiking, traveling...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Design, cooking, dancing...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My silver hair, my light green eyes, nice legs and no particular accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: wide variety of poetry, fiction, design, biographies, nutrition, herbs, homeopathy
FILMS: indie, foreign and documentary. Jacob Burns Film center is one of my favorite places.
THEATER: I'm more interested in drama, but I'll go to a good musical once in a while.
MUSIC: very eclectic.... Jazz, Brazilian, Reggae, Salsa, African, Madeleine Peyroux, Bonnie Raitt, Adele, Amy Winehouse (so sad she's gone), WFUV, WBGO, WNYC
FOOD: I'm a foodie.. I love ethnic foods of all varieties. When I cook, I go for fresh, locally grown, healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Clean sheets, hot showers, kind and romantic YOU (if I ever find you).
Secondary, but up there: great food, travel, dancing, music (especially Salsa, Bossa Nova, Jazz, African beat, Reggae), art.
(Ok, yeah, that's more than six. So sue me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. How/where/when I might find you...
2. Finding magic and mystery every day...
3. My soul... and how to best use this precious and wild life.
4. Exercise, healthy diet, staying in shape.

Most importantly - how best to practice loving kindness.

[Note: I am not God-fearing. I see God in nature and in the eyes of those who are gentle and kind. I don't fear God. God is love. Namaste.]
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most often just relaxing after a long week of working hard, cooking a meal, watching a movie. Probably wishing I had someone to cuddle with. Sometimes listening to live music, or going to dinner with friends, or seeing a film. (And then... occasionally, I'm dancing -- sometimes Salsa, sometimes Swing, a little Hustle, Zydeco or just rocking to the beat. )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I won't say here.... But if we become close....
I'll whisper in your ear....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are kind, gentle, and witty and within driving distance. Quirky is ok. Angry, not ok.

May you be well, peaceful and happy.
MAY LOVE SURROUND YOU.

NOTE: I am not an upgraded user, so I cannot view any "likes", so if you do "like" me, please send me a message and let me know. You never know where it might lead.

(Oh, btw it would help if you are NOT allergic to cats. I have two very sweet and funny felines.)