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deziner22

58 F Tarrytown, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I want to fall in love with a unique and creative man who is worldly, smart, hard-working, soft-hearted, with a sharp wit... a great kisser who is confident, relaxed, trustworthy, kind to animals and old people.

I'm low-key, easy-going, but I also have an 'edge.' If we met, I might strike you as the creative, artistic type... but I'm also focused, quick and practical.

I've been through wild and fun phases - remember Max's Kansas City? The East Village in the early 70's? And then had a taste of a paradise in Topanga Canyon, Montecito, Santa Barbara. I've traveled quite a bit, had a good dose of adventure.

Like me, you've done some searching..... you are low-drama, low-pressure, compassionate and honest, and you love to get out and experience the world. You have positive energy.... And you try to make the best of any situation. You might be younger or older, but either way, you have a sparkle in your eyes and a warm smile.

Aside: I don't lie about my age. Born in 1956. My hair color is natural; started changing to silver when I was 16.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching and seeking. Looking for you!
Each day has a new challenge to solve, and it never gets dull.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, dancing, design, communicating, listening and ... kissing (but I do need more practice).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My silver hair, my insatiable curiosity about just about everything, my light green eyes, nice legs and no particular speaking accent.... Oh, yeah, and the stories. Just get me started, and you'll hear some stories. I'm grateful for all that's come my way, and I've crossed paths with some famous (and infamous) characters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: wide variety of poetry, fiction, design, biographies
FILMS: indie, foreign and documentary. Jacob Burns Film center is one of my favorite places.
THEATER: I'm more interested in drama, but I'll go to a good musical once in a while.
MUSIC: very eclectic.... Jazz, Brazilian, Reggae, Salsa, African, Madeleine Peyroux, Bonnie Raitt, Adele, Amy Winehouse (so sad she's gone), WFUV, WBGO, WNYC
FOOD: I'm a foodie.. I love ethnic foods of all varieties. When I cook, I go for fresh, locally grown, healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Clean sheets, hot showers, kind and sexy YOU (if I ever find you).
Secondary, but up there: great food, travel, music (especially Salsa, Bossa Nova, Jazz, African beat, Reggae), art.
(Ok, yeah, that's more than six. So sue me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. Finding you...
2. Finding magic and mystery every day...
3. My soul... and how to best use this precious and wild life.
4. Exercise, healthy diet, staying in shape.
5. Moving to a foreign country just for a year or so...
Where? Not sure. Let's decide together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At rest, sometimes. And sometimes listening to live music, going to dinner with friends, or seeing a film.

Occasionally, I'm dancing -- sometimes Salsa, sometimes Swing, a little Hustle, Zydeco or just rocking to the beat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I won't say here.... But if we become close....
I'll whisper secrets in your ear....
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 55–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you are curious about me, and you are within 30 miles of Tarrytown, NY.