Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for a unique man who is worldly, smart, hard-working,
soft-hearted, with a good sense of humor... a sweetheart who is
confident, relaxed, trustworthy, and compassionate. He is wise and
mature but still has a youthful spark.
I'm spiritual, Buddhish, home-loving, contemplative, – the creative
artistic type. Most of the time, I'm low-key and easy-going, but I
can be vivacious and high energy, too... I have a tremendous zest
for life. I've lived on both coasts, traveled quite a bit, and
enjoyed a good dose of adventure. (Btw my latest adventure is in
studying alternative medicine. Happy to explain, if you want to
BTW I was really born in 1956. My hair color is natural; started
changing to silver when I was 16. I stopped dyeing it many years
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching and seeking. Looking for you!
Each day has a new challenge to solve, and it never gets dull.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Design, cooking, dancing...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My silver hair, my light green eyes, nice legs and no particular
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: wide variety of poetry, fiction, design, biographies,
nutrition, herbs, homeopathy
FILMS: indie, foreign and documentary. Jacob Burns Film center is
one of my favorite places.
THEATER: I'm more interested in drama, but I'll go to a good
musical once in a while.
MUSIC: very eclectic.... Jazz, Brazilian, Reggae, Salsa, African,
Madeleine Peyroux, Bonnie Raitt, Adele, Amy Winehouse (so sad she's
gone), WFUV, WBGO, WNYC
FOOD: I'm a foodie.. I love ethnic foods of all varieties. When I
cook, I go for fresh, locally grown, healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Clean sheets, hot showers, kind and romantic YOU (if I ever find
Secondary, but up there: great food, travel, dancing, music
(especially Salsa, Bossa Nova, Jazz, African beat, Reggae),
(Ok, yeah, that's more than six. So sue me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. How/where/when I might find you...
2. Finding magic and mystery every day...
3. My soul... and how to best use this precious and wild
4. Exercise, healthy diet, staying in shape.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most often... just relaxing after a long week of working hard,
cooking a meal, watching a movie... Wishing I had someone to cuddle
with. But sometimes listening to live music, going to dinner with
friends, or seeing a film. (And occasionally, I'm dancing --
sometimes Salsa, sometimes Swing, a little Hustle, Zydeco or just
rocking to the beat. )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I won't say here.... But if we become close....
I'll whisper in your ear....
You should message me if
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You are over 48, you are within 30 miles of Tarrytown, NY -- and
you would like to get off this crazy site!
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