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dfrntdrmr

54 M Detroit, MI

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Impossible to adequately describe in a few short books, so instead I'll give you a sense from what follows... though as of late the OKC bot reads a real lot into their personality assessment that ain't necessarily so.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Too many things to list: At a given time I might be banging my guitar or drums (maybe even creating a new tune), out on the lake, doing a peak fitness or weight training workout, out on the town checking out an art opening, or dancing to some tunes. And of course, there’s keeping the business rolling along.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jack of many trades; master of a few.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't know because I'm not them. Somebody else should answer this one.

Very often when clients meet me after having talked on the phone they say I'm "much younger than they expected," though they still don't know my age in Earth years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Entertainment: all over the place ... whatever moves me, grooves me, shakes my booty, makes me think, and/or amuses me, including some country music and rap. Always like to come across great (or so horrifically bad it's great) new (at least to me) stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's see: water, protein, essential fatty acids, some carbohydrates, essential minerals, and vitamins. The rest I can take care of, barring extreme circumstances.

But, for purposes of the obvious intent of this segment, and taking "things" in a very general sense, some that come to mind are:

The interesting and groovy people in my life

Outdated slang

Touch

Drums, or anything that can function in that capacity, and given that...

Ear plugs

My head lamp

Interesting weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why Earth people say "sorry" when they really mean something along the lines of "tough rocks," or regarding somebody's misfortune that was entirely not their fault.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no such thing as a "typical" night for yours truly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually from another galaxy many light-years away. We actually have the same ancestors, and don't look much different; but some of us like to don those funny green suits for our amusement at your reactions.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
In general:

It crosses your mind. I rarely say "never" or "always"; but have always found it great to connect with interesting, fun people.

For romantic relationship purposes:

You're actually interested in meeting people.

You're an interesting, genetically female, and generally feminine (but some "tomboy" traits could be great), warm-hearted, health-conscious, fun, funny, generally positive (or at least even-handed), passionate, sensual, and affectionate woman with good character who likes to be kissed and physically pampered well and often when you're involved with someone.

You consider yourself to be at a compatible level of maturity and physical health, for which it's hard to pin down a numerical age range, so I purposely left that one blank. Especially seeing as how the "intangible" requirements have probably narrowed it down quite enough already (laughing).

And especially if the above apply and you want to despite my not fitting your stated or obviously implied criteria, because then there's very little chance I'll write first, unless I can't resist commenting on your profile. While I can well understand narrowing things down to keep the deluge of messages manageable, I also see fit to target my efforts as well (smile).

So go ahead and drop a line if you're "typing finger tied," even if it's just to say "hi." Everyone has different strengths, and the most important ones do not necessarily have much to do with sending dazzling emails... or making sizzling small talk over coffee or tea, which can be "on" or "off" for yours truly.