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dfrntdrmr

53 / M / Straight / Single

Detroit, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Cannot adequately be described in a few short books... don't fit in those little boxes so well ... so I'll do my best without wearing my severely challenged typing finger out too much. Perhaps someone else should do this, really ... how can one really do this in an unbiased way?

Sometimes silly, sometimes spontaneous, sometimes serious, sometimes super-sensual, supremely non-stereotypical, but seldom the same-old-same-old. Socially conscious, but tend not to make a big stink about it. Very perceptive, and (I hope) have a decent sense of perspective.

Often view things in a way, way different light than most Earth people do. There's a method to my madness... at least most of the time. But sometimes a bit of madness for its own sake can be fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Too many things to list, from music (playing {instruments with strings or that I can hit}, singing, composing, recording, listening, and dancing to it), fishing, philosophizing, reading, working out, various outdoor, athletic, and social activities, fighting the powers that be when necessary (and it's not a complete fool's mission), and of course, my business activities.
I’m really good at
Jack of many trades; master of a few.

Having fun with horrible puns and cheap rhymes -- at least sometimes.

Getting into fixes on account of forgetfulness or absent-mindedness and getting out of them with strategy and and creativity.
The first things people usually notice about me
Don't know because I'm not them. Somebody else should definitely answer this one.

Very often when clients meet me after having talked on the phone they say I'm "much younger than they expected," though they still don't know my age in Earth years
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Entertainment: all over the place ... whatever moves me, grooves me, shakes my booty, makes me think, and/or amuses me, including some country music and rap. .:p. Always like to come across great (or so horrifically bad it's great) new (at least to me) stuff.

Food: mostly unique grub I whip up myself.
The six things I could never do without
Let's see: water, protein, carbohydrates, essential fatty acids, essential minerals, and vitamins. The rest I can take care of, barring extreme circumstances.

But, for purposes of the obvious intent of this segment, six or so that come to mind are:

the interesting and groovy people in my life

touch

drums, or anything that can function in that capacity

ear plugs

my head lamp

interesting weather.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why Earth people say "sorry" when they really mean something along the lines of "tough rocks," or regarding somebody's misfortune that was entirely not their fault.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's no such thing as a "typical" night for yours truly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually from another galaxy many light-years away. We actually look pretty much the same as Earth people, and even have the same DNA (within individual variations, of course), but like to put on those funny green suits for laughs.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
It crosses your mind.

You're actually interested in meeting people.

You're not expecting to find the mythical "perfect match". I'm not "perfect" anything, but a jolly good match I might be.

You're an interesting, genetically female and generally feminine (but some "tomboy" traits could be great), generally warm-hearted (definitely not mean-spirited), health-conscious, fun, and passionate and affectionate woman with good character. I gave up on stating an age range, because the slope got too slippery, so to speak.

And especially if the above apply and you want to despite my not fitting your stated or obviously implied criteria, because then there's very little chance I'll write first, unless I can't resist commenting on it.

A simple "hi" will do. I have no unreasonable expectations of consistent wit and dazzling conversation. Everyone has different strengths, and the most important ones do not necessarily have much to do with sending dazzling emails... or even making good small talk over coffee or tea. :D