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55 • Garden City, MI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–99
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 22
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
If I merely "like" you, without writing, that means you've reached your message limit (probably from a blizzard of responses, I'd hazard a guess), and need to clear out a few messages or just drop me a line.
Otherwise... too many things to list: At a given time I might be banging my guitar or drums (maybe even creating a new tune), out on the lake, doing a peak fitness or weight training workout, out on the town checking out an art opening, or dancing to some tunes. And of course, there’s keeping the business rolling along.
Rigging improvised repairs to get out of jams.
Playing in odd timings without sounding jazzy.
Very often when clients meet me after having talked on the phone they say I'm "much younger than they expected," though they still don't know my age in Earth years.
Food: mostly unique creations I whip up. Some that turned out most tantalizing to the taste buds were rather surprising or even amusing.
But, for purposes of the obvious intent of this segment, and taking "things" in a very general sense, some that come to mind are, including one bonus (as I'm wired to provide more than required):
The interesting and groovy people in my life
Drums, or anything that can function in that capacity, and given that...
My head lamp (miner's cap)
It crosses your mind. I rarely say "never" or "always"; but have always found it great to connect with interesting, fun people.
For romantic relationship purposes:
You're actually interested in meeting people.
You're an interesting, genetically female, and generally feminine (but some "tomboy" traits could be great), warm-hearted, health-conscious, fun, funny, generally positive (or at least even-handed), passionate, sensual, and affectionate woman with good character who likes to be kissed and physically pampered well and often when you're involved with someone.
You consider yourself to be at a compatible level of maturity and physical health, for which it's hard to pin down a numerical age range, so I purposely left that one blank. Especially seeing as how the "intangible" requirements have probably narrowed it down quite enough already.
And especially if the above apply and you want to despite my not fitting your stated or obviously implied criteria, because then there's very little chance I'll write first, unless I can't resist commenting on your profile. While I can well understand narrowing things down to keep the deluge of messages manageable, I also see fit to target my efforts as well.
So go ahead and drop a line if you're "typing finger tied," even if it's just to say "hi." Everyone has different strengths, and the most important ones do not necessarily have much to do with sending dazzling emails... or making sizzling small talk over coffee or tea.
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