I am 155lbs I didn't see any place to put that. I know I put a lot in here, but I wanted you to get a good idea of who I am.

I am a hopeless romantic and always the comedian! I enjoy laughing and making people laugh. I love to spoil the person I am with. Now don't confuse that with smothering. But when I am involved with a person I expect it to become our life. We should be able to communicate about anything good or bad. Understand that at the end of the day we are there for each other and this is why we are together. If I know you will do everything you can for me I will do the same. Understand that at times we both might have to compromise just a little even if we don't want to until we can come to an agreement. Life throws curve balls at you and if you can't be strong enough when the other person is not then it is not a relationship. Please no drama queens!

So with that said that is my basic values of a relationship. I love the person I am with! I enjoy doing special things for them. I cook. Sushi, Italian, Mexican, Mediterranean, southern cooking and more. I am a perfectionist! I try to make things as perfect as I can. I have had to work on making sure if it is not that is not an issue. I do my best as I do with everything I do.

I am a person that will compromise as much as I can. I will put everything I have into a relationship, but if the person is not going to engage then it is time to move on. So my goal is to find a good woman that takes care of herself. Is ready to give as well as receive in a relationship. Now I am the cook, so you will not have to cook, unless you want to. But are you willing to help with dishes? I don't one someone that will just camp on the TV. I want to find a way to schedule workouts at the gym (24 hour fitness), dancing, walking the dogs and time for us and anything new you bring to the relationship. If you are not interested in the gym (yoga, racquetball or weights) then that is okay. I work from home so I can fit that in some place. But I do expect you to take care of your body. I don't expect perfection. Just some effort!

So now you know I am a hopeless romantic that wants to give. Send you flowers, have a drink and dinner ready when you come home. Surprise you by taking you into giving you a bath first and then give you a Hot Stone and deep tissue massage. To melt your stress away. All while having wine and relaxing music. I enjoy this kind of stuff. I am giving. I love to hold and enjoy the beautiful body of the person I am with. I am physical. But I don't go around putting my whoha in anything I can. I am selective and respect woman to much to do that. When I find the right woman and we have that connection we will know.

So what do I do. Well it seems I might be making a job change back to music. I own an information security company and consulting company. But I think my heart is moving back to photography and music. I got a job offer to write sound tracks for movies with Universal. I do miss doing that. I stopped in 1996 and make it a hobby. I have two boys 12 and 7 and two great well mannered dogs. I play guitar mostly now a days with use of piano, trumpet, sax, french horn, violin, cello and anything else I need when composing.

So about my other job. I am paid to test security of large companies (fortune 500 and above). Physical and network/computer security. Yes I am very good at that job, but I am not willing to do the 90% travel anymore. I am ready for a life and find a person I can't stand to be away from. Someone that if we are my thought still drift to them.

Looking for a woman that is ready for a real relationship and that has communications skills and can compromise enough to make a marriage last for the rest of our lives.

I am good at everything, but spelling, handwriting, drawing and sleep. I think that is about it.

I am not a know it all, but I do my best to be as good as I can at anything I can do. I have enough drive for the world.

Face, hair, eyes, and butt. Girls have always liked to grab it.

Sushi, Steak, Wine, chicken Marsala anything good. I don't just cook crap I love good food. Oh, there is always time for a good scotch (yes and even you will like the scotch).

1.My two boys
2. love a woman
3. food, water,
4. dogs
5. chap-stick.

What do I need to do next?

Dancing! I do Push/West Coast swing, and Swing-Out. I dance with a group of friends. I am always up to take a new style or learn new stuff.

I now have no partner to dance with any takers?

Ask me and I will tell you!

If you take care of your self like I do. I expect the same of anyone I want to be involved with. If something develops then great, if not more friends is always welcome. I do keep my friends close. I do have two box 13 and 8. So at some point you will have to come to terms with that.

Let me get you a drink and a massage and turn you into a floppy chicken! So what ever relationship I am in at some point the attraction must be there. I communicate well and I am honest. That is one of the reasons I posted what I have. I do understand that sex is not everything and we will not just be in bed all the time. But a good sex life is vital to a good relationship.

Thanks and I look forward to talking with you. You can IM me and we can grab coffee, I can make you dinner! I have house in Richardson.