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30 • Durham, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–32
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 1:48pm
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly anything
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of Ph.D program
- Rather not say
- Dislikes dogs and has cats
I am pretty laid back guy looking for a long term relationship. I hope you'll see something here that will perk your interest.
I like to mix it up, and I'm usually out doing something most nights. I have a couple circles I run in, and I enjoy being someone they can count on. When I travel (which I love to do), my favorite part is meeting people from other cultures. Also, I hang out with cat, Roland, on occasion--he's my role model, I aspire to his laziness.
I'm definitely a bit nerdy. I like reading classic novels and watching art house films. But I enjoy my escapism as well, so I'm really happy to watch cartoons or see a mindless comedy.
I enjoy cooking, especially a bit of the spicy stuff. My gotos recently have been chicken curry and pulled pork, but I love exploring the culinary world. I'm have been moving low carb and that's a fun challenge.
That's a pretty simple summary right there. What else? I am an INJF according to the MB what-have-you, but not too strongly in any of those directions, which means I share characteristics with Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela, and Nicole Kidman, but I am much cuter than all of them.
Drop me a line if you want to chat!
Trying to be more healthy--eating better and working out more frequently. Can't decide though if I like morning or evening workouts.
So I'm looking to grow, and interested to see where that takes me. I do love this area and wouldn't mind sticking around, but I am open for a change. Most importantly, I want to figure that out with a long term partner, and I'm prepared to be flexible if I need to.
I like to think I'm pretty good at talking to people and figuring out how they tick. It's really all about listening.
Some people think I'm good at cooking, but I feel like I still have lots to learn.
I am pretty open when it comes to the movies and music. I like older movies and foreign flicks, as well as anything that stimulates my thought muscle, but I will also go in for the bigger name blockbusters and cute kid films, like Up. Some of my favorite movies include The Big Lebowski, Crimes and Misdemeanors, and anything Wes Anderson.
Music I believe is situation appropriate. If I am out having a drink, then jazz is the best; if I'm driving in the car, I like something up tempo to keep me awake. 80s music is always appropriate, especially the more inappropriate the music. If I am relaxing at home, or throwing a party, I generally like some mellow music with a fun kick--Slavic Soul Party, anyone?
I like to be adventurous with my food. Spicy is a plus.
2. My watch. I need it to tell time, because without it I would have to look at my phone, or, heaven forbid, a clock. I enjoy being on time, something that was ground into my skull after four years of high school football.
3. Friends and family. l like most of them.
4. My car. I'm in love with the little guy.
5. The beach on Lake Michigan. I grew up on this beach, and it is one of the places that I can I always return to if I need to chill and rejuvenate myself.
6. my cat Roland. He is just awesome.
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