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31 Lynnwood, WA Bigender, Genderfluid, Man

Bigender, Genderfluid, Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19-36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Space camp
Wants kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm trying to build a lifestyle that makes sense, in a world that I only vaguely grasp.

I'm the Lifestyle type, so everything I do, or nearly so, is immersive. I bleed for what I love. I don't stop when I'm tired. If I have a half-decent reason, I'll build it myself from the ground up.

....which is to say, I'm an odd duck. I don't fit in well.

Do you like odd ducks? Because I LOVE the odd, the weird, the cobbled-together, jury-rigged, and prototype kinda folks who never stop learning, never stop growing, and never stop being fascinated with the little things in life.

If you're equally unimpressed with Partisan Politics, Buzz Media, and sitting all day with your TV watching (insert here), we'll likely get along just fine!

I know what I want and where I'm (trying to be) going with a certainty that is bordering on dementia.

......and you can too!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Some days, just floating by. Get through, one step at a time.

Other days, trying to knock stars out of the sky with only the items at-hand.

Other days tangled in beautiful people and obvious to the madness.

Other days so shocked at the madness around me that I can hardly peel my eyes away.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ethical Non-Monogamy.
Beheading Drama and Burning the Remains.
Being Bi-Gendered.
Designing Lasers, Crossbows, Props, and Anything Else.
Being the Most Dominant, Submissive, Switch, and ___ That You Know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Freedom to judge what is important and what is trivial on a changing-basis.

The Hope that someday, Life will settle enough that people, priorities, work, play...... will all mean the same person(s)

Designing solutions to problems you've only just discovered. I can haz fix now? ^_^

Pho. And Teriyaki. With bubble tea, and a couple sides of gyoza. Because it's (insert day of the week), or whatever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. little I understand of these silly humans, and their social hierarchy, mating rituals, and attempts to control one another.

All while ignoring even the most basic cause-and-effect.

.....I don't...... grok....? o_O
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playtesting Schlock Mercenary, or building lasers, or fighting zombies, or designing.... or.... or....
You should message me if
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**Update** Not really 'seeking' anything right now. Life is pretty crazy. I really only keep this thing up for one person... and she knows who she is.

Right now life is 80% sedentary/introverted, and 20% fusion-powered explosions full of Awesome. I would really like to see that number closer to 50%/50% as it has been in the past. Those closest to me seem to have a serious impact in what I get done and where my inspiration comes from... you either understand, or you don't! ^_^;;

I'm sick to death of focusing on Surviving when I'd rather be Thriving. Troubleshooting instead of Optimizing. That latter skills are far more of my specialty, but that requires trust, investment, and commonality of interest.

Looking for laser-building, gentlemen with a sharp tongue, a multi-faceted personality, willing to pull his half of the weight (nothing more, nothing less!), and who is loyal to a fault? No fade-aways, no rage-quits, no drama, no bullshit.

Low inhibitions, no expectations. No time for the emotionally-unstable, indecisive, or lacking in communication.

All the time in the world for the quietly adventurous. The nerdy super heroine. Someone who could take on the world if they could just trust somebody to watch their back.

Poly, kinky, perverted, gender-flexible, multi-faceted...... never, EVER boring.

And a firm believer in equality between sexes. Period. Are you on this site, expecting others to treat you in a way you're not willing to treat others? Then we, sir/madam, simply won't get alone!

Every relationship starts with hello, and doesn't require poetry, or even a well-written note. But if you're interested.... you'd best act like it! Else somebody willing to put their feet to the pavement to get what they want will beat you to the punch.... and the Secret Volcano Base is pretty bad-ass. And certainly worth the effort!

.....but you either get it, or you don't. ^_^