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42 Tucson, AZ Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:34pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
“Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.”

-Albert Einstein

I'm a loving, affectionate, and sensitive guy who believes in living an extraordinary life. I love spending time with people (and animals) but try to give myself plenty of time to tinker with my hobbies- alone or with co-conspirators.

I am an ambivert (generally outgoing)- I love concerts, parties and meeting new people, but I’m equally satisfied being a homebody--gardening, playing guitar or doing projects around the house.

I love any given moment I'm likely to be playing, watching, or listening to it!

I have a lot of pets: 3 cats, 9 chickens, and tortoise and a husky/shepherd puppy.

I love coffees & teas, whiskies--mostly Scotch, Bourbon and Rye (not a big fan of the Canadian and Irish varieties), and dark chocolate. I'm kind of a snob about these things.

I'm a foodie- strictly vegetarian- but open minded to dating a conscious omnivore.

I'm a feminist.

I hardly ever turn on my tv.

I love hiking, camping, playing guitar & piano, gardening, photography and shooting/editing videos. I've also dabbled in writing poetry, short stories and erotica.

I have an amazing nine year old daughter who is insanely cool, smart, funny, loving, well-adjusted.

I love children and I LOVE being a dad.

I'm seeking a friend/date/activity-partner/co-adventurer/girlfriend/ lover...Awesomeness and general badassery are required.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it.

Keepin' it real, yo.

Having fun, making great memories and spreading joy along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Having fun.

Guitar, gardening, photography, video editing,

Making people laugh.

I'm getting better at yoga and rock climbing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My awesomeness and humility...and people tell me that I smell nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Jane Eyre, Frankenstein, The Catcher in the Rye, The Monk, To Kill A Mockingbird, Peace is Every Step, Tao Te Ching.

Harold and Maude, The Secretary, Little Miss Sunshine, Juno, Life is Beautiful, Pi, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Silver Linings Playbook, Moonrise Kingdom, Juno, Donnie Darko, Waking Life, Un Chien Andalou, and everything by Hayao Miyazaki.

Music (chronologically throughout my life, with dozens of significant omissions):

Simon and Garfunkel, Cat Stevens, U2, The Psychedelic Furs, The Smiths, The Cure, Joy Division, Echo and the Bunnymen, REM, The Beatles, Jimi Hendrix, the Grateful Dead, Bob Dylan, Neil Young, Phish, Widespread Panic, Jazz, World music, Bob Marley, Peter Tosh, The Velvet Underground, Beck, Iron and Wine, Radiohead, Wilco, Neutral Milk Hotel, Sigur Ros, Regina Spektor, TV on the Radio, Great Lake Swimmers, Phantogram, Bombay Bicycle Club...

Shows: TED talks, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Modern Family
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.6 My daughter
2.2 Guitars
2.7 Coffee
3.1 Friends
3.8 A garden
4.6 Camping
4.9 Toilet paper
5. Avocados
5.2 Vowels
5.5 Coconut Water (with pulp!)
5.9 Perspective
6. Bending rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what worms think about and how to get out of this straightjacket.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on my spaceship, staying up late, or going to bed early.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes cry during movies, and I own a lot of kitchen appliances-- a microwave is NOT one of them.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are an amazing, intelligent, sexy, affectionate, open-minded, outdoorsy, music-loving woman--bonus points for being vegetarian (although I swear, I'm NOT the food police), sharing hobbies/ interests and/or cussing like a sailor.