dhil89
26 Leicester, UK
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My self-summary
I'm a young transman who is looking to find that special someone.

I have two cats who are my world. Im a family man who likes to spend quality time with the special people in my life. I don't particularly like going out drinking, but I enjoy going out for meals and having a laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently applied to college to do a course on Independence and working life. I am also looking into doing voluntary work repairing and building from scratch baby furniture. I am currently in process of decorating my flat, and I enjoy learning lots of DIY skills!! I am also attending a course one morning a week which builds on confidence and self esteem :-)
I’m really good at
Listening. Now I know that sounds boring but it comes in useful! I can spend hours chatting about things that interest me, including psychology and although I'm not religious, I can hold down a damn good convo about religion, which always gets people going!!

Im not very good at filling out these sorts of profiles so I can't think at the moment what else im good at... Why don't you send me a message and find out a bit more about me? ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
At this very moment id say my hair - as I've just dyed my sweeping fringe red! I've never asked anyone what the first thing they notice about me is, so why don't you be the first person to tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading true stories and love watching true movies. Music is mixed, at the moment im liking James Arthur, Jason Mraz, Evanescense, One Direction etc. Just stuff that's in the charts and songs that remind me of happy past memories.

Im bit of a picky eater when it comes to food, but I'm up for trying most things! I like chicken fajitas with salad and a pinch of salsa tho!!
The six things I could never do without
Hmmm....

My family
My cats
My hat
My phone

Cant think of another two.... Lets get chatting and see if you can make the list... ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future... There's no point dwelling on the past although it is good to reminisce, however, I often wonder where I'll be in 5, 10 , 15 years time...
On a typical Friday night I am
Like.I've already mentioned, im not into.pubbing and clubing, so my Friday night's are often spent at my place catching up.on the weeks tele or watching a good film! I do like to go down for the occasional game of pool though!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a transman. For those of you that don't know what that means, I shall explain... I was born female bodied, however, I have always felt male and I have now began the transition to change my body from female to male to bring my body inline with my mind, as you can't bring the mind inline with the body... Please dont stop reading as soon as you have read this, give me a chance, get to know me, any obstacle or concern you think my being a transman can bring, lets discuss it before you rule me out :-)
You should message me if
1. You can accept me as I am, mainly here I mean in regards to me being trans*, There is no point messaging me if you think you can convince me to stop my transition, as that's not going to happen. I am male and that is how I expect to me accepted as.

2. You feel like we would get on well, like I said, you give me a chance, and I'll give you one... You never know where things may lead.... :-)

By the way, although I'm looking for love eventually, I am also looking for new friends, especially some who will introduce me to the gay scene ;-) xx
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