I live a few hundred yards over the state line in New Jersey. I'm a native of Pennsylvania and have no interest in, or attachment to, New Jersey. I do virtually nothing in New Jersey (apart from paying astronomical taxes to support an army of corrupt politicians and their drone employees) and am entirely focused on Pennsylvania and on New York City.
I'm presentable, dress well, and have a conventional and conservative appearance. I'm far too private a person to post a photo which shows my face, so my okcupid photographs show me holding a basketball in one hand with that arm extended. (I'm palming the basketball in these photos; I have big hands.)
This is the single most important point in my profile: my appearance is, by far, the least significant and least interesting thing about me. If the absence of a photograph of my face matters in the slightest to you (and why ever would something so totally unimportant about a man matter to anybody??), rather than complain about it, please exit my profile and look at postings by some other people.
In lieu of a photograph of my face, I have posted a fairly detailed profile here, and I have answered over 400 okcupid questions.
I don't enjoy interacting with technology, but I read about this site and thought that it might be a nice way to meet someone from Pennsylvania or from New York who shares a common interest for a non-romantic and completely non-intimate friendship.
I want to be clear about this: My posting has nothing whatever to do with dating, but I'd like to connect with someone for friendship only--I am absolutely uninterested in romance or in any sort of intimacy. I have lots of smart, interesting male friends, but it's been a while since I had a female friend. It's probably not very likely to happen, but it is my thought that I might be able to make a female friend through okcupid.
I was married for about five years, and I divorced my ex-wife in 2001. I no longer have any financial or other obligations to my ex-wife, and I have no involvement with her, whatever. I don't have any children. I'm quite solvent.