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Argh! Have a hard time with this part... So, I am taking the lazy and easy way out and listing what my friends think of me. Extrovert, artsy, cosmopolitan, friendly, generous, goofy, serious, kind, hard working, energetic. I enjoy cooking, dinner parties, singing and dancing, love to explore new things. Caring, confident, honest, ethical, devoted, free-spirited, romantic, affectionate, sometimes intense, on the path of personal/spiritual growth. Socially aware, independent thinker with politically liberal/progressive views, spiritual and tolerant. I like both, lazy weekends, staying in my pajamas half the day catching up with family and friends, doing experimental cooking, AND busy, packed weekends full of activities, running to Boston for a day/a weekend for fun and interesting activities. If I have overlapping invites to something really, really good, I am known to do both or all three sometimes. Sometimes, it is hard to choose between all the good that is offered, especially when it involves good company, good friends, good food and good music. :)

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

They know right away that I am an Indian (and proud of it). They also see that I have lived here long enough (two decades) and feel at home here, in this second home of mine. They notice that I am an east-west blend. They are almost always surprised that I am single! Is it good or bad, I am not sure.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

The love of my family, my friends, ethnic foods, music, my phone, access to nature.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

My future, future of the world, am I too old for bangs, water shortage crisis, energy crisis, morals and judgment, every day chores, environment, economy, human behavior, human awareness, why so few people sing in public, why I love yoga so much but don't do enough of it, am I really lazy, do I think too much?, why should I over intellectualize EVERYTHING?, Have I become too American? why am I not taking risks, should I change my line of work?, Will I survive as an artist?, Am I selling out if I switch to a higher paying job in marketing or project management for a few years?, getting organized, friends with problems, How far is too far when it comes to helping them, Inefficiency and how I can help anyone and everyone with that?, and oh, worry about what others think of me sometimes, not too much, but sometimes. I wonder if it is the Indian in me...

This changes from day to day. It might be a whole set of new things tomorrow.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Out where my friends are, could be a movie, a dinner party, hanging out with friends' kids, drive to Boston for some music, play badminton with friends before going out to dinner.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

That I am a very private person in some ways. Get to know me and you'll find out everything. Show me your skeletons and I will show you mine. :)

You should message me if Propose an edit

You are looking for something serious, friendship, single and available, super self confident, good communicator (not the kind that takes three days to call back! What's up with that??), you're really open to dating people from other cultures, self sufficient, confident, independent, funny, yet serious when necessary, patient, tolerant.

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