Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to say that I am unique in both my lifestyle and
personality. I am goth. I do wear a lot of black and do have
piercings etc. However, it is more than just about appear for me.
It is the way I choose to lead my life. I also lead another
lifestyle that is often misunderstood by many. I am polyamorous. In
other words I may be married but I don't believe monogamy is for
me. My husband and I have a very open marriage. I choose this
lifesyle for reasons I don't mind explaining if asked. Don't be shy
to ask me anything. I don't bite...hard that is. :P
I also posses a crazy personality. By that I mean crazy in a fun
way of course. You will fine out once you get to know me. People
tend to warm up to me easily because of this. I believe in living
life to the fullest. Life is too short not to. I also don't believe
in being judgemental. I only do so when I feel I am being judged
for who I am. I believe perfection does not exist. Therefore no one
is perfect. I would never say I or think I am better than anyone
else. Why strive for perfection when it is something that is
unattainable? Just respect yourself for who you are and not who you
desire to be.
I often mention to people who ask me what brings me to a site such
as this; I like to say that I have no expectations. However, like
pretty much everyone on here I have desires. Ideally, I would like
to find someone whom I could eventually establish a relationship
with. Someone who understand the concept of polyamory as well as
accept it. I am tired of getting messages from people that just
want sleep with me rather than get to know me for me not my
goodies. Hence me updating my profile. I do believe that it is
possible to love or have strong feelings for more than one person
at the same time. I also believe that it is virtually impossible to
find one person who posesses all the characteristics you desire to
make you feel complete. This being said I don't believe I am
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I belong to a model and talent agency that basically is looking for
the girl next door type which isn't me of course. I am still trying
to get my foot in the door just by being myself. It is hard to find
and agency that is looking for really unique qualities other than
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to say and I have been told that I am a good singer aswell
as a dancer. I am trying to get my own band started where I am the
lead vocalist. I love to dance. It is in my blood. I have a
Caribbean background (Vincentian and Trinidadian). I am also good
at making friends pretty easily mainly because of my personality. I
don't judge and I believe in treating people how I expect to be
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tend to notice that I am not your typical black girl. I am
goth so I do wear a lot of black or dark clothing. I also have
piercings and tattoos. Other than my ears of course I also have my
right nostril, septum and labret pierced. I love piercing and
tattoos on myself and other people but you don't need to have any
of these things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy all genres of movies though I do have a passion for horror
and comedy. I am pretty eclectic when it comes to music aswell.
However, as with my taste in music I do and always will have a
passion for metal. As for my taste in food. I am a little picky but
I don't have a problem with trying new things. I do love Chinese,
Italian and caribbean dishes though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never be without my phone, keys, piercings, music, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I often think about the meaning of life and our existance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be out clubbing or getting baked with a couple of friend at
vapor lounge. I also enjoy just chillin at home with friends and/or
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There are a few secrets about myself. Secrets that shall remain
private until I believe you are fit to receive such "naughty"
details ;P. If you are desperate to find out try getting to know me
better. I promise once I share my secrets with you you won't be
disapointed. I can't give away all my goodies that easily now could
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I welcome messages from people who have an open mind and are 100%
willing to accept my lifestyle. People who aren't judgmental. If
you are loving, caring and affectionate and enjoy having fun and
living life to the fullest then I am your girl. Also if you are
willing to date and possibly develope a relationship with me that's
a definite plus. Providing you are comfortable me being both
married and poly of course. Again not expected but of course
appreciated. Please DO NOT message if you are looking for a one
night stand or a friends with benefits type of arrangement. Thanks.
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