here are a few words that describe me...... jaded geeky wary nihilistic loyal cautious unpretentious trustworthy disillusioned.
here are some things that interest me......polyamory/polyfidelity, sustainability, the animal kingdom, tattoos, piercings, body modification, painting, sculpting, making noise, making movies, vinyl, latex, gas masks, bondage, conspiracy theories, paranormal phenomena, cryptozoology, alternate dimensions, aliens, ancient civilizations......

also, let me put this out on the table. i'm not just on here looking for sex. i'd like to meet some interesting people through the site, seeing as i'm kind of a hermit in real life and don't usually go up to people and introduce myself. and just because i'm married, bi, and looking for a girl for my husband and i does not mean i just want to hook up and am only interested in sex. i would much rather be in a monogamous, polyamorous relationship and have never had a fling or one night stand. so many girls pass me by because they have a preconceived notion about the couples on dating sites. not all women are online looking to please their man, not all couples are just out to screw everything on two legs, and i believe that it is possible to have a happy, stable three-way relationship; although so far it has not happened for us.

you'd really get a better idea of what i'm like by checking out my myspace page. and since i'm always with my husband, you may as well see what he's like, too.
myspace.com/diabolikal_pookie
myspace.com/hakaider666

trying my best to make the most of it and not let things get me down. i tend to be cynical a lot of the time. but that doesn't mean i don't try and enjoy life. i spend most of my time taking care of my menagerie of pets. i tend to like animals more than people. they let me down far less often.

why, everything, of course.

my piercings and my hair; i'm on my way to being rapunzel.

books: clive barker, h.p. lovecraft, george orwell, michael slade, anything relating to the paranormal, conspiracy theories, alternate dimensions/realities, sci-fi, fantasy, true crime, movie making, etc.....
movies: suspiria, nightbreed, from beyond, they live, lair of the white worm, dog soldiers, company of wolves, dagon, organ, ichi the killer, time and tide, the bride with white hair, wolfen, cabin boy, baseketball, wicked city, sword of vengeance, the heroic trio, zu-warriors of the magic mountain, sangre eterna......
music: mr. bungle, tubring, gaia, big black, babyland, bad brains, melt banana, faith no more, the phantom limbs, atari teenage riot, nick cave and the bad seeds, bjork, david bowie, iggy and the stooges......
food: veggie taco salad, almonds and walnuts,chocolate, chinese, pasta, rice, mushrooms, strawberries.....

how about six things i could do without....
1. bigotry
2. apathy
3. narrow-mindedness
4. materialism
5. violence
6. meat

why that hamster on the wheel in my head won't ever take a break.

bored out of my skull.

i talk to stuffed animals.

you aren't a guy trying to get laid, you are a girl that would consider polyamory/polyfidelity, or if you just find me the least bit interesting and might want to hang out in the real world.