Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I change what I put here fairly regularly. I like growing,
evolving, pushing limits and finding out what's next.
I don't like stagnant, settling for less than awesome or accepting
the status quo just because that's the way things have always
I want to do awesome things with awesome people. Be that going on
adventures, talking ideas for hours, discovering amazing things,
random acts of kindness, indulging our senses, playing games or
hanging out in a blanket fort telling really crap jokes and eating
I'm ethically non-monogamous. Emphasis on the "ethically"
**Sometimes I like to change my location on here for shits n
giggles. Northampton (where I am physically based) isn't very
diverse and I'm not opposed to long distance liaisons with the
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing whatever I can to make the lives of the people I care about
that little bit happier.
Trying to improve it. Trying to be a good parent. Reminding myself
to find joy in the little things.
Learning how to cook new tasty things.
Hanging out in the hot tub.
Pretending to be shot, angry or blown up on humanitarian and
foreign aid training courses.
Working for a cafe that rescues food that would otherwise be wasted
and turning it into awesome meals that people pay what they feel
Organising the odd social get together for non-mono folk in
Northampton and beyond.
I also help organise my local munch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Changing my mind, but also being decisive.
Going off on tangents.
Throwing hot tub parties.
Cooking stuff. Fights break out over my lime curd and nobody leaves
my house hungry.
I also think I am OK at taking pictures.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends where you meet me I guess. People often notice that I am
offering them cake or some other foodstuff and that I have a lot of
hair. I take care to make sure it doesn't end up in the cake
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In lieu of a proper list have some of my favourite prose
"He who binds to himself a joy
Does the wingéd life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in eternity’s sunrise."
- William Blake
"The cow is of a bovine ilk,
One end moo, the other milk."
- Ogden Nash
“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me
years to understand that this too, was a gift.”
― Mary Oliver
"May the Angel of Wildness disturb the places
Where your life is domesticated and safe,
Take you to the territories of true othernes"
- John O'Donohue
Tastebuds/last.fm : diamondflamer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Independence, laughter, public transport, the internet, insects,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So much stuff. All the time. Usually several things at once. I
can't switch off or properly relax easily because of this, but it's
also fun and has spawned some pretty cool ideas. Also some really
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out looking for mischief, playing games in the pub or attempting to
do something like the grocery shopping online whilst playing a
game, watching a film and chatting to someone. I talk the
multitasking thing a bit far sometimes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am non-neurotypical (I think that's the trendy and more PC term
for brain wrongs now right?). My brain is amazing, but also a
scumbag at times. I do my utmost best to ensure that it doesn't
have a negative effect on me or anyone else. I am also very
sensitive (not in the emotional sense, but the physical sense) and
this, combined with mild synaesthesia, means I experience things
quite intensely. It can be annoying sometimes, but also hella fun.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to play Splatoon or Mario Kart with me sometime (Nintendo
You can tell me a really silly or crap joke. You get extra points
if it's one I haven't heard before or you made it up yourself.
Limericks are also good.
If you can think of something interesting to say about yourself and
want to have a decent conversation.
You need a good recipe.
Many of us are here for sex in one form or another (yup, I admit
it, I want to get physically deviant with people just as much as
the next person), but that doesn't mean I am going to talk to you
about it, a total stranger on the internet who isn't paying me for
the privilege and is incapable of being respectful and
understanding of sex positivity.
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