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diamondflamer

33 F London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:04pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Poly, parent, pervert,

Silly, short, science nut,

Bohemian, baking, burlesque fan,

Wistful, wondering, weirdo,

Eccentric, easy going, entomologist.

But more than a list of adjectives. I love new things and experiences and learning. I also love taking pictures, playing games (board and card, not mind, silly. Monty Python Fluxx FTW.), going on adventures and keeping active.

I'm looking to meet interesting people who have something to say for themselves and are open to the idea of ethical non-monogamy/alternative relationship styles or who just want to have a good conversation and see what happens!

I am not looking for random hook ups or settling down into suburban codependency, been there and done that and it's just not my bag baby.

I live in Northampton, but the dating pool is a bit shallow for someone of my sexual orientation so tend to do a bit of virtual travelling from time to time by way of a location change on here in order to connect with more interesting people.

If you're in the Bristol area you should totally check out my sister Scarlet-firefly, she's amazeballs.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making food porn: http://365daysofnoms.wordpress.com
Or follow via FB by liking this page https://www.facebook.com/365daysofnoms

Trying to improve it. Trying to be a good parent. Reminding myself to find joy in the little things.

Learning stuff. For example, recently I learned that I like mochi balls, but they're not worth the extortionate price. I also learned about preserving lemons and that I can now do 500 reps with the weights in one session. My arms learned new ways to ache.

Looking forward to taking on some conservation and ecology work and getting back into swimming and training as soon as I am back on my feet. Hoping to do my first open water swim event at some point in the not too distant future.

Loving having a hot tub!

Trying ALL of the gins.

I'd like to be an entomologist one day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Changing my mind, but also being decisive. Talking absolute crap after a few pints of ale or glasses of red.

Processing stuff pretty quickly. Being a coper. Adapt or die.

Cooking stuff. Apparently my lime curd is my biggest success recently as people are begging me for jars of it.

I also think I am OK at taking pictures.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/diamondflamer/
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Recently someone I met off here for the first time said "Hair and smile". So there. (I did say he wasn't allowed to say boobs though, and yes, that means you're not allowed either).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In lieu of a proper list have some of my favourite prose instead:

"He who binds to himself a joy
Does the wingéd life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in eternity’s sunrise."

- William Blake

"The cow is of a bovine ilk,
One end moo, the other milk."

- Ogden Nash

“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift.”
― Mary Oliver

Tastebuds/last.fm : diamondflamer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Independence, laughter, public transport, the internet, insects, reliable contraception.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do we really want to go down that rabbit hole? I do like "red pill" people though...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying an adult beverage either at home or somewhere more interesting if I don't have to be a responsible parent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I recently hired a personal trainer to help me improve my fitness levels (I am not trying to lose my curves though, I am quite attached to them). I don't hate it as much as I thought I would. Sometimes Neighbours makes me cry.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a silly joke to share. I collect them. You want to go for a pint of ale sometime. You want someone to go take pictures of creatures and stuff with.

If the best you can come up with is "hi how r u" or you send me something offensive then you'll just end up as one more contribution to my red rating. This makes me sad. Please don't be put off by it though if you would genuinely like to get to know me. :)