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33 London, UK Cis Woman, Gender Nonconforming

Cis Woman, Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:58am
Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Questioning
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Poly, parent, pervert,

Silly, short, science nut,

Bohemian, baking, burlesque fan,

Wistful, wondering, weirdo,

Eccentric, easy going, entomologist.

But more than a list of adjectives. I love new things and experiences and learning. I also love taking pictures, playing games (board and card, not mind, silly. Monty Python Fluxx FTW.), going on adventures and keeping active.

I'm looking to meet interesting people who have something to say for themselves and are open to the idea of ethical non-monogamy/alternative relationship styles or who just want to have a good conversation and see what happens!

I am not looking for random hook ups or settling down into suburban codependency, been there and done that and it's just not my bag baby.

I live in Northampton, but the dating pool is a bit shallow for someone of my sexual orientation so tend to do a bit of virtual travelling from time to time by way of a location change on here in order to connect with more interesting people.

If you're in the Bristol area you should totally check out my sister Scarlet-firefly, she's amazeballs.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing whatever I can to make the lives of the people I care about that little bit happier.

Celebrating obscure food holidays every day of the year, then from July this year I am letting the internet (yes, that includes you) decide what I eat for a year. or follow here You get to join in and everything!

Trying to improve it. Trying to be a good parent. Reminding myself to find joy in the little things.

Learning stuff. I'm currently doing a bunch of online courses and feeling like I may have bitten off more than I can chew.

Loving having a hot tub!

I'd like to be an entomologist one day.#

Working for a not for profit food waste interception cafe.

Organising the odd social get together for no-mono folk in Northampton and beyond.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Changing my mind, but also being decisive. Talking absolute crap after a few pints of ale or glasses of red.

Processing stuff pretty quickly. Being a coper. Adapt or die.

Cooking stuff. Fights break out over my lime curd and nobody leaves my house hungry.

I also think I am OK at taking pictures.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Recently someone I met off here for the first time said "Hair and smile". So there. (I did say he wasn't allowed to say boobs though, and yes, that means you're not allowed either).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In lieu of a proper list have some of my favourite prose instead:

"He who binds to himself a joy
Does the wingéd life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in eternity’s sunrise."

- William Blake

"The cow is of a bovine ilk,
One end moo, the other milk."

- Ogden Nash

“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift.”
― Mary Oliver

"May the Angel of Wildness disturb the places
Where your life is domesticated and safe,
Take you to the territories of true othernes"

- John O'Donohue

Tastebuds/ : diamondflamer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Independence, laughter, public transport, the internet, insects, reliable contraception.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do we really want to go down that rabbit hole? I do like "red pill" people though...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying an adult beverage either at home or somewhere more interesting if I don't have my responsible parent hat on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes Neighbours makes me cry.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a silly joke to share. I collect them. You want to go for a pint of ale sometime. You want someone to go take pictures of creatures and stuff with.

If the best you can come up with is "hi how r u" or you send me something offensive then you'll just end up as one more contribution to my red rating. This makes me sad. Please don't be put off by it though if you would genuinely like to get to know me. :)