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diaphane

23 / F / straight / Single

Silver Creek, New York

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am reflective, gentle, and unpretentious.

My Self-Summary

I'm agnostic, liberal, and individualistic. I tend to be critical of mercantilistic lifestyles and prefer instead to focus on cultivating personal potential and developing avenues towards self-actualization by engaging in any kind of artistic or creative pursuit. Generally, I'm a "nice" person, although I can be somewhat aloof and reserved.

My core values include tolerance, acceptance, non-judgmentalism, and intellectual uncertainty.

I'm interested primarily in psychology, self-development, poetry, philosophy, and music.

What I’m doing with my life

Molding and shaping time to comply with my sense of aestheticism.

Basically I just do whatever I feel like doing and reject arbitrary limitations on my behavior. (¡Viva la revolución!)

Everything seems vast and amorphous to me, protean and chatoyant like the winedark sea and as lofty as cumulonimbus clouds billowing on the blistered horizon. (Homeric epithets, cloud formations.) I easily become frustrated with individuals who are constantly preoccupied with accumulating social clout and material assets -- myopically treating life as if it's just this prolonged version of Monopoly. (Social disenchantment.)

I’m really good at

Many things...

Oh, really good? Whimsical nonsense, gesticulation, tweezing, closing microwaves quietly.

The first things people usually notice about me

Usually people I have just met tell me that I am "funny," although often this is just a polite way of letting me know that I'm "weird."

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: anything I consider authentic. Sonic complexity, free-flowing melodic embellishment, poignancy, and unconventionality invest music with considerable aural value. I enjoy creating pastiche electronica (usually with psychedelic and ambient overtones).

Movies: I have not ever liked a movie and only watch these things as a form of social bonding.

Literature: poetry, usually experimental rather than traditional, mostly abstract rather than representational.

Miscellanea: clocks, wind chimes, and flowing water; moths, fireflies and sparklers, mansions falling off cliffs

The six things I could never do without

Intellectual stimulation, space/privacy/solitude, the cavalcades of phantasmagorical imagery cascading through my mind, meaningful aesthetic experiences, emotional coalescence, that moment when the heavens split and fissure and squalls of empyreal residue thrash down, roaring wayawayaway.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Big, grandiose things like the past and the distant future and the role of humanity in the universe.

On a typical Friday night I am

Committing quantum suicide, hopping trains of thought, staring into the Abyss, and other nebulous abstractions that are really just code for solitary and vicarious engagements.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Nothing, nothing at all. It'll be like holding up a mirror.

You should message me if

It doesn't matter, but feel free to entertain me by working in the words "glockenspiel," "iguana," and "astronaut" in a contextually relevant manner.