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didntwannadoit

26 / F / straight / Single

Salem, Oregon

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am sweet, charismatic, and sarcastic.

My Self-Summary

I hate doing these things.. I know.. then why bothering signing up on a dating website? Well truth be told I just wanted to do the dating quiz and then it made me sign up (hence the screen name) to get my answer and then my friend (also on this site) insisted I keep it so... that brings us to here. I am very honest, I have kids, I do what I do and if you really want to know what that is you can always ask. I LOVE music.. to a fault some would say. If your a superficial, prom king wannabe then please go elsewhere.. I am far from being a trophy girlfriend (just sayin).. Thats about it.. Hell I didn't even want to write all that :) want to know more then ask.

What I’m doing with my life

Working and raising my kids. Having fun when I can (got some upcoming concerts) and just living.. That's all any of us can do right?

I’m really good at

Ha Ha.. that's a vague question.. I am really good at making Heather laugh, raising my kids, having fun, yadda yadda yadda... Insert the same crap here that someone else said :)

The first things people usually notice about me

my piercings or my eyes.... At least that's what I have been told. Since I can't exactly notice myself for the first time I can't say for sure.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

wow.. really? All that in this little box? I read Dean Koontz, Stephen King and yes... the Twilight series... So sue me. I love movies in general... Boondock Saints is an amazing movie :) I prefer Rock music but I listen to everything. I absolutely LOVE music (as I mentioned) and I can't even begin to list my favorites. as for food I love comfort foods.

The six things I could never do without

My kids, My family, My friends, My music, My phone (I'm a text-aholic), and........... TBD

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life. Who doesn't? I can't list one particular thing I think about because I think about it all. My life, My kids, My job, My future... Etc Etc Etc....

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends on the Friday and who has the kids.. Me or My ex? If it's my week then I am putting the girls to bed and either getting a sitter for a couple hours to go play pool or hang out with some friends and then maybe watching a movie at home before I pass out. If it's my ex's week then I am out with my friends having fun doing whatever comes to mind.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Since my divorce I am torn between believing in the whole Love thing and being cynical... I want to believe fairytale love exists and all that fun stuff but at the same time I find myself looking at life a different way these days (I call it being realistic) where that's all crap to sell books, movies and cd's and it just doesn't work that way.

You should message me if

You made it this far and your honest. I can't stand being lied to.