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27 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:58pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love all kinds of music, photography, literature, bicycles, history, current events and art. I live for a good party and I will travel for it.

On my weekends I try my best to be as active as I can. That includes bike rides, museum trips, kayak adventures, concerts, getting whiskey drunk, cooking dinners with my best friends, or going out dancing. I am driven by new experiences and spontaneity.

I also don't really have a home, which makes Christmas kind of awkward (my parents moved back to India after my father retired). I grew up in Maryland, Indonesia, Australia, and have been to India over 30 times in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A gentleman never asks, and a lady never tells - because who really wants to admit that they work in federal consulting?

I've made my means by doing a lot of different things, so I like to think I'm not the run of the mill brosultant - I've been a bouncer, a photographer and I used to work in international development. I still work at a bicycle shop on the weekends.

..but life is so much more than a career or a job. I do my best to try and live a life without regret, full of wonder and novelty. I strive to improve myself and to spend time with the people I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying positive, adapting to evolving circumstances and observation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People are usually to notice my sense of humor and passively notice my jewelry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Short stories by Fitzgerald, One Hundred Years of Solitude, magical realism of all sorts really, South Asian literature, The Confederacy of Dunces, Guns Germs and Steel, the poems of Charles Bukowski, Calvin and Hobbes, The End of Poverty, Infinite Jest. The New Yorker.

Movies: Everything pretentious, particularly documentaries, indie movies, sundance/academy bait. Brick. Blade Runner. American Beauty. Anything by the Cohen brothers. Star Wars. Man on Wire. Annie Hall. Wes Anderson. Did you see Boyhood? Frances Ha.

Music:I listen to a lot of stuff and I listen to A LOT of radio. Flying Lotus, Madonna, Lykke Li, Mr. Little Jeans, Blackbird Blackbird, Nujabes, Simon and Garfunkel, Misun, Au Revoir Simone, Das Racist, Tupac, Zion I, The Antlers, YACHT, Washed Out, WHodini, Woody Guthrie, Old Crow Medicine Show, Velvet Underground, The XX, The Smiths, Jethro Tull, Radiohead, Miguel, The Weeknd...etc But the best sense for what I get down to comes from my Hype Machine playlist:

Food: South Indian vegetarian food and greasy American diner stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family, a passport, a camera, a bicycle, a pair of proper headphones, and something to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, my ambitions, my dreams, and why we happened to just skip over the 90s dance party.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up late and up to no good :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I derive a lot of my general happiness from being surrounded by people. I'm not a fan of being alone (which I would like to distinguish from solitude), so I tend to seek out activities that are social and group-oriented.
You should message me if
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I like independent, socially-conscious spirits who aren't afraid to dance along the lines of political correctness.

You should totally message me if:
- You're an extrovert
- You consider yourself a feminist
- You're passionate about life to the fullest
- You love to laugh and think its a perfect raison d'etre