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27 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 6:23am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I work hard and play hard. I try to cook every day and baking brings me peace. I love all kinds of music, photography, literature, bicycles, history, current events and art. I live for a good party and I will travel for it.

On my weekends I try my best to be as active as I can. That includes exercising, kayak adventures, getting whiskey drunk, cooking an epic Sunday evening meal with my best friends, going out dancing, or trying something I've never done before.

I don't have a hometown: I grew up in Maryland, Indonesia, Australia, and have been to India over 30 times in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm just trying to appreciate life one day at a time in this troubled, stressed-out little city.

Work-wise, I work for a small business (in federal consulting) that is growing immeasurably. It gives me the opportunity to do a lot of different things and access to being mentored by some awesome, kind, and intelligent people.

I also volunteer regularly and work at a bike shop in my free time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying positive, adaptation, and observation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Short stories by Fitzgerald, One Hundred Years of Solitude, magical realism of all sorts really, South Asian literature, The Confederacy of Dunces, Guns Germs and Steel, the poems of Charles Bukowski, Calvin and Hobbes, The End of Poverty, Infinite Jest. The New Yorker.

Movies: I don't even know where to start. I love independent movies, dramas, and I am a complete sucker for Sundance/Academy bait. I love Documentaries. Brick. Blade Runner. American Beauty. Anything by the Cohen brothers. Star Wars. Man on Wire. Annie Hall.

iPhone music: I love everything, but maybe what is on my iPhone can give you the best glimpse: Beach House, Blackbird Blackbird, Blood Orange, Broken Bells, Casiokids, Chromatics, Chvrches, CLASSIXX, The Cult, Cyne, David Bowie, Deer Tick, Den of Thieves, Depeche Mode, Disclosure, The Doors, Elvis Costello, Erykah Badu, Flume, Flying Lotus, Freddie Gibbs, Fugees, Grand Theft Auto Vice City Sound Track, Hucci, James Blake, Jean Grae, Kanye West, Kendrick Lamar, Kishi Bashi, Lana Del Rey, London Grammar, Lorde, Lou Reed, Lykke Li, M83, Madonna, Miguel, Miracle Fortress, Moby, Mr Little Jeans, Nico, Nous Non Plus, Nujabes, Queen, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Ta-ku, Thievery Corporation, Washed Out, The Weeknd. I can listen to Nujabes and Simon & Garfunkel until the end of time.

I listen to mixes every now and then (Boiler room, BBC one, etc) and I try to go to at least two shows a month.

This is what I listen to at work:

Food: South Indian vegetarian food, soup dumplings, and stone ground grits. I love making brunch at home (my biscuits and gravy skills are epic).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family, a passport, a camera, a bicycle, a pair of proper headphones, and something to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Friendship, sex and love, the occasional insecurity, where to travel, visual composition.

Also, what ever happened to the music video?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up late and up to no good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OKCupid made me a moderator without my consent or request. So, uh, no matter what, I guess I'll always have that as a kind of validation?
You should message me if
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I like independent spirits. You're an extrovert or insightful introvert, a feminist, passionate about life, and a doer.