I am eccentric, warm, and optimistic.
My Self-Summary
I can have a loose tongue and speak too much, but I enjoy
listening more. I ask a
lot of
questions. It is in the spirit of
participation that I do this. I am
a
cuddler but
difficult to touch. I will probably want to
dance or
sing or
sprint or
shake or
move at any given moment. I like
motion. I always have a
plethora of
projects. I keep myself busy, even when
I'm not. I have not been bored since I was a little kid. I
dream, I day dream.
My night dreams are fairly dry... I'll step out with a friend and
smoke a
cigarette. I'll go to the grocery
store. I dream my wildest during the day. At night, I do not need
to dream so wild.
I adore
people. I
love them all, even the nasty ones.
Oh, I'm an aesthete. I never really considered that before, but the
shoe fits.... and it's a cute shoe.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at a used book store, and I read. I would very much like to
improve American
transportation. I am thinking
trains in lieu of cars. The problem right now is that passenger
trains are unusually heavy for the low amount of cargo(people) that
they hold. So, I'm looking for lighter trains.
For the most part, I let my life lead me. I trust my
intuition, and it does
not lead me astray. Sometimes I over-think situations and that does
lead me astray, but it isn't usually an issue.
Saving money and figuring out how to get to
Central America. Also reading
lots of non-fiction and soon to be studying
Spanish.
I’m really good at
a lot of random things including but not limited to: brass
instrument playing, dancing, writing computer programs, problem
solving, cooking, baking bread, budgeting, rolling cigarettes,
reading, putting together unusual outfits, forming opinions on the
fly, photography, film development, photo enlarging, sorting,
answering questions(my answers are usually interesting but not
always accurate) and not ever being bored.
Keeping secrets.
I am also adept at trusting people. I enjoy trusting people and do
so unless I contrive reasons not to do so.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I didn't look like this the last time that they saw me, and
they have in fact met me before... I change my hair a lot, facial
hair too. I have not had a mohawk in a long time, but it's one of
my favorites. People react very differently to me depending on how
I have my hair. That intrigues me.
I frequently have a moustache. It is sometimes handlebar-y, and at
other times it is wild and brushfire-esque.
That I look damn good in short shorts.
Editors
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books and Stories: Screwjack by Hunter S. Thompson, Still Life with
Woodpecker by Tom Robbins, Villa Incognito by Tom Robbins, Smile at
the Foot of the Ladder by Henry Miller, A Devil in Paradise by
Henry Miller, The Cossacks by Leo Tolstoy, Sputnik Sweetheart by
Haruki Murakami, The Baron in the Trees by Italo Calvino, The
Teachings of Don Juan by Carlos Castaneda, The Celebration by Ivan
Angelo, I was a Teenage Fairy by Fransesca Lia Block, Heartsnatcher
by Boris Vian, How Proust Can Change Your Life by Alain de Botton,
The Book of Chameleons by Jose Eduardo Agualusa, Love in the Time
of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Light in August by William
Faulkner, Honey for the Bears by Anthony Burgess, Those Damned
Rebels by Michael Pearfon, Cancer-Step Outside the Box by Ty M.
Bollinger, Another Bullshit Night in Suck City by Nick Flynn, Tales
of a Shaman's Apprentice by Mark J. Plotkin, Confessions of an
Economic Hit Man by John Perkins, House of Sleeping Beauties by
Yasunari Kawabata, Wolf Totem by Jiang Rong, Breakfast at Tiffany's
by Truman Capote, Soil Science Simplified by Helmut Kohnke, The
Last Days of Old Beijing by Michael Meyer, The Subterraneans by
Jack Kerouac, The Open Veins of Latin America by Eduardo Galeano,
Sleeping Fires by George Gissing, Masters of the Dew by Jacques
Roumain, Conquest by David Day, The Immoralist by Andre Gide,
Travels with Herodotus by Ryszard Kapuscinski, The Foxfire series,
When You Are Engulfed in Flames by David Sedaris, The Optimists
Daughter by Eudora Welty, Blues for Mister Charlie by James
Baldwin, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, The Kreutzer Sonata by
Leo Tolstoy
Movies: Run, Lola, Run; Jules et Jim; Masculin Feminin; The Big
Lebowski; Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas; The Umbrellas of
Cherbourg; After the Rain; Burnt by the Sun; Je vous salue, Marie;
Eternal Sunshine on a Spotless Mind; The Royal Tenenbaums; Life is
Beautiful; Volver; The Blue Angel; Lola; Withnail and I; Meet the
Feebles; The Bubble; The Best Way to Walk (I really like good
movies. They don't have to be fancy, just good. I see no conflict
in appreciating the version of the Pink Panther with Steve Martin
followed by Cowboy Bebop, and then watching House MD.... They are
all wonderful and fit into my tiny head.)
Music: The Arcade Fire, The Decemberists, Tchaikovsky, Dawn Landes,
Neko Case, The Stranglers, Neutral Milk Hotel, Bonnie 'Prince'
Billy, Roscoe Holcomb, Palestrina, Sage Francis, Tom Petty,
Busdriver, Jay-Z, Feist, Odetta, DJ Aphrodite, Guns N Roses, Queen,
David Bowie, Johnny Cash, Harry Nilsson, The Pretty Things, The
Dresden Dolls, Kitka, Miles Davis, She & Him, The Weepies,
Outkast, The Who, The Fleet Foxes, Kate Nash, Beirut, The Shins,
Sufjan Stevens, Badly Drawn Boy, Ani Difranco, Belle &
Sebastian, The Fiery Furnaces, Loudon Wainwright III, Rufus
Wainwright, Devendra Banhart, Tilly and the Wall, Of Montreal,
Pedro the Lion, Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass, Fanfare
Ciocarlia, Thom Yorke, Duke Ellington, The Squirrel Nut Zippers, TV
on the Radio, Zap Mama, Mary Lou Williams, Martha Argerich, Vladmir
Ashkenazy, Nina Simone, Dolly Parton, Billie Holiday, Kid Cudi,
April March
Food: Rice, Beans, Rice and Beans, Green edible plants(read:
collard greens, string beans, lima beans, broccoli, brussel
sprouts, spinach), home-made crab pizza, cranberry muffins, bread
pudding, reubens, camembert, bread, all manner of fruits that are
edible when raw
Cigarette Brands: Lucky Strike Lights, Gauloises, du Maurier, Nat
Sherman, Shepherd Hotel, Midnight Dreams, Sobraine, Turkish
Special, Bali Shag, Camel Turkish Royals
The six things I could never do without
friends, lovers, Fiji water, tea(which I unfortunately have to do
without now because of a caffeine intolerance... this makes me
unhappy), my hands, my self
books, film, music, dance, visual art(in that order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think often about people I care about. I remember my past
interactions with people vividly. I remember feelings. I don't
remember little words.
I think about ways to improve things. I think about things I have
done wrong. I imagine many different lives that I might lead. I
plan and make lists.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night, I am usually at home reading a book or
out at a bar(i.e. Chuckies(aka Club Charles)) drinking and reading
a newspaper. This is of course subject to my whims.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm in love with you.
... scary, huh?
I do not hide much. I am an open person. So if you ask, I will
tell.
I sometimes dream about being a domestic partner replete with
cooking, cleaning and otherwise keeping house.
You should message me if
If you are mischievous and sweet but not nice.
If you know where I can find
persimmon tea.
If you want to bake bread.
I was recently struck with the observation that I love to try new
foods, new alcohols, new tobaccos, new candies, etc. I also love to
consume those things which are for me not new but never the less
give my palate and olfactories great joy. So, you should message me
if you also enjoy tasting and smelling food, drink, tobaccos, and
sweets. These are topics which I could spend hours discussing and
dissecting. That hint of caramel in a Camel Turkish Royal, citrus
explosions in a Domaine Wardy Sauvignon Blanc, and robust but
subtle umami lent to collard greens by bacon all excite me
terribly.