I do my best to be reliable, responsible, and reasonable. I also do my best to be punctual, but that one doesn't always work out right. I think that humor and kindness are both important and that you don't have to sacrifice one for the other. The fine people of the Internet seem to forget that sometimes. I have reasons for my opinions and stand by them as long as they keep making sense to me, but I reserve the right to revise them. What I say should probably be taken with a grain of salt and the disclaimer that I might change my mind.
That probably wasn't very helpful, so I'll try to be more direct, even if I'm not very good at it. I'm looking for a guy I think is fun, good-hearted, attractive, and other positive things and who in turn thinks the same about me. Simple, right? But as anyone on this site could attest, that's harder than it sounds, or else we wouldn't all be on here. Maybe the best we can do is keep trying until something sticks.
In short, I honestly believe, at the end of the day, personally, my life is not about a banana.